
04/12/2025
There comes a time in every life when the child must step forward—and the adult must awaken. This moment, though subtle in its arrival, marks a profound shift: the end of innocence, and the beginning of true responsibility. Across the globe, indigenous cultures have long honored this sacred transition through rites of passage—powerful rituals that ignite the inner spark of self-reliance and awaken the courage to walk one’s own path.
These ceremonies are not just ancient customs. They are transformative experiences that serve one essential purpose: to help the individual shed dependency and become the author of their own story. In these moments, a young soul learns to stand tall, not because someone told them they could—but because they finally realize they must.
Guides, elders, and spiritual mentors often walk beside us on our journey, offering insight, comfort, and clarity when the path ahead seems unclear. But even the wisest guide knows: there comes a time to let go. There comes a time when the student must leave the secure circle and step alone into the dark forest—to discover what only solitude and struggle can teach.
Clinging to those who once showed us the way can feel safe, even comforting. But when we refuse to release that reliance, we risk never growing into our full strength. We risk shrinking from our own potential. To truly step into adulthood is to stop looking outward for permission—and begin listening inward for purpose.
Adulthood is not just an age. It is a mindset. A declaration. It is the fierce willingness to take responsibility for your life—to own your choices, your failures, your victories. It is the courage to chart your own course through the storms, to trust your inner compass, and to know that you are capable—even when the path is hard.
This journey is not always easy. It requires bravery, resilience, and a deep belief in one’s own worth. But on the other side lies something far greater than comfort: freedom. Power. Authenticity.
So when the time comes—and it always does—do not shrink from the call. Do not wait for another to show you the way. You are ready. You are worthy. Step into your power.
You are the guide now.
John Gonzalez
Standing Bear Network