03/23/2026
Focus of the week: the sensations of safety. ✨
I hope you had a most wonderful spring break week, friend. We are back from a quick camping trip, and I can’t wait to get back to the dance floor with you.
This week, let’s dive into a somatic exploration of safety…
The big questions of the week:
1). What does safety feel like? What do you sense in your body when you feel safe? Unsafe? What do you sense/notice in your:
Feet
Shoulders
Face
Heartbeat
Belly
Breath
Eyes
Muscles
________
2). Do you move (or hold yourself) differently when you feel safe vs. unsafe?
Let’s dive in. We’ll dance and sense our bodies in class… but also, what do you notice beyond the dance floor?
We can then also explore things like:
1). When, where, and around whom do you feel more safe? Less safe? What do you sense in your body?
2). How can you help others feel more safe? Your Aya dance-mates in class? Family? Friends? Coworkers? Neighbors? Fellow humans?
3). How might you cultivate more sensations of safety within yourself? Perhaps sometimes cultivating a sense of safety involves avoiding people, places, consuming content, or activities where we feel vulnerable or less safe… But perhaps sometimes the opposite is true…? Is it ever helpful to give ourselves more exposure to environments, people, or activities that feel somewhat vulnerable or scary at first in order to build a sense of safety?
For example, do you remember your first time dancing Aya? How vulnerable/nervous did you feel that very first time? New place. New people. New ways of moving. Oh my gosh, what’s she going to have us do next? What does she mean “flow?” Why is she yelling hi-yah? What am I supposed to do when she says “free body?” And then, fast forward to now… as you dance today... Now that you’ve Aya’d 10x (or 300x)… Do you feel more safe now that you know what to expect? Now that it’s all so much more familiar? Now that you know more of the how’s and why’s behind what we do? Now that you’ve danced with the same people, in the same space, over and over again? Now that you’ve sat in the circle and know that it is ok to share? Or to not share? Now that you’ve witnessed me (and other classmates as well) be vulnerable? Now that you’ve had more experience doing what we do in class?
Or another example… Think of someone with whom you feel very safe. Did it always feel that way? Or did exposure (being around that person time and time again) help to build that sensation of safety slowly over time?
4). When it comes to feeling safe, how important are things like: repetition, predictability, consistency, and more detailed/intimate information or understanding?
5). Does the content you consume (books, social media, news, TV, movies, etc.) ever impact how safe you feel?
6). A long time ago, I remember seeing the directive to: Do one thing every day that scares you. When was the last time you did something that scared you? How important do you think it is to regularly do things that scare you? For example, I used to be terrified of putting a video of myself dancing on Facebook (eek! what if someone makes fun of me!). But, after this past Dancember (where I put a song of myself dancing up on Facebook every day for a month), now it is truly no big deal. I’m out there. I did it. I didn’t die. :) And, to be honest, I can’t believe I let my fear of what strangers on the internet might think keep me from sharing more about Aya (which I love so very much) with the world for soooooooooooo long. In a way, Dancember felt like exposure therapy. Each day was easier than the day before it.
7). How much does it help to have support from friends/loved ones as you do something that scares you? If you ever want a friend & cheerleader as you lean into something hard or scary, I’m here for you!
Ok. So… That’s a lot for us to explore. Thoughts, friend? As always, can’t wait to dive in with you. See you soon!
Much love,
💛 Dani
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