Evergreen Christian Counseling

03/02/2026

I want to gently remind someone of this today.

You are probably doing better than you think you are.

You may still feel tired. You may still have moments where your thoughts run ahead of you. You may still be carrying things that no one else fully sees.

But you are showing up.

You are trying.
You are pausing before reacting.
You are becoming more aware of your patterns.

That matters.

Growth is rarely dramatic. It is quiet. It looks like choosing a different response than you did six months ago. It looks like noticing when your mind starts spiraling and deciding not to follow it all the way down.

If you have lived in survival mode for a long time, calm can feel unfamiliar. Change can feel slow. But slow does not mean stagnant.

God did not design your mind to stay in constant alarm. He designed it to renew. Renewal takes practice. It takes patience. It takes grace.

So if this season feels steady but not spectacular, that is okay.

You do not have to be perfect to be progressing.

Keep going.

The internal work you are doing is shaping more than you realize.

🌿 Wendy
Evergreen Christian Counseling

02/25/2026

Colossians 3:1 to 3 has been on my mind this week:

“Set your hearts on things above… set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.”

It is such a simple instruction, but not always an easy one.

Where do your thoughts live most of the day
What is the one thing you find yourself thinking about the most
Is it the Lord
Or is it the circumstance you cannot control

Scripture reminds us that our thoughts matter. They shape our peace. They shape our perspective. Philippians 4:8 calls us to think on what is true and steady. Isaiah 26:3 reminds us that peace comes when our minds are fixed on Him.

That does not mean we ignore real life or pretend things are not hard. It means we have a place to anchor our thoughts when life feels uncertain. We can keep replaying the situation we cannot control, or we can gently bring our focus back to the One who does.

This is something I come back to often myself. Where my mind goes, my heart follows.

If today feels heavy, take a moment to pause and ask yourself
Where have my thoughts been living
And where do I want them to rest

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02/23/2026

Thank you for renewing your membership, Evergreen Christian Counseling!

We appreciate all you do and are excited to promote you!

02/19/2026

Today marks one year of seeing clients at Evergreen Christian Counseling. What a year it has been. A year of growth, stretching, sacred conversations, changed lives, and God’s steady hand over this practice. I am continually humbled by the trust people place in me and deeply grateful to walk alongside individuals and families as they pursue healing and hope.

Happy one year anniversary to Evergreen Christian Counseling. I truly believe this calling was placed on my heart for a reason, and I am thankful every day for the opportunity to serve.

“Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” Proverbs 16:3

02/15/2026

02/09/2026

Grief comes in waves…

Grief has a way of showing up when we least expect it.
In the middle of a busy day.
At the grocery store.
Driving to work.
In a quiet moment you thought you were finally “past it.”

If you have ever felt caught off guard by a wave of sadness long after a loss, you are not alone. Grief is not a straight line. It does not follow a schedule. And it does not ask for permission before it surfaces. Often, it appears in the most inconvenient moments because love does not operate on a timeline either.

One of the most helpful things we can do is stop trying to push grief away and instead learn how to gently process it. When it comes, pause if you can. Take a breath. Notice what you are feeling. Name it. You might not always have the space to fully sit with it right then, and that is okay. Sometimes we acknowledge it and then give ourselves permission to return to it later.

Scheduling time to grieve may sound unusual, but it can be incredibly healing. Setting aside intentional moments to reflect, pray, journal, look through photos, or simply sit with memories gives your heart room to process what it carries. Grief is not something to “get over.” It is something we learn to carry with tenderness.

Grief is also a reflection of love. We grieve deeply because we loved deeply. The ache we feel is often the echo of connection, relationship, and meaning. Allowing ourselves to process that love is part of honoring the person and the place they hold in our lives.

If grief has shown up unexpectedly for you lately, take it as an invitation to slow down and be gentle with yourself. There is no timeline you must follow. There is no right or wrong way to feel. There is only the steady work of allowing your heart to heal, one moment at a time.

You are allowed to grieve.
You are allowed to remember.
You are allowed to take the time you need.

02/06/2026

A New Start, Every Morning

Some mornings feel calm and easy.
Other mornings we wake up already behind.
And some mornings we wake up still carrying yesterday.

But one thing I try to come back to is this… every morning is a new start.

Even if we are rushing.
Even if we did not sleep well.
Even if the day before was heavy.

We may not always control how we wake up, but we can practice choosing how we step into the day. Our first thoughts matter. They tend to set the tone for everything that follows. One simple CBT tool is to pause for a moment and notice that first thought when you wake up. Then gently ask
Is this thought helping me
Is it completely true
What is a more grounded and hopeful thought I can start with instead

It can be as simple as shifting from
“This day is going to be too much”
to
“I can take today one step at a time. I can handle what is in front of me.”

Small shifts like that, practiced over time, really do make a difference.

Scripture reminds us that we are not waking up to leftovers from yesterday
“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.” Lamentations 3:22 to 23

No matter how yesterday went, today is a fresh start.
A chance to reset.
A chance to choose a better thought.
A chance to move forward with hope.

You do not have to feel perfect to begin again.
You just have to begin.

02/02/2026

This morning in my devotional, I was reading Max Lucado, and he shared a simple but powerful way to think about our thoughts that immediately stood out to me and closely aligns with the CBT work I do in counseling.

He talks about identifying “UFOs”
An Untruth creates a False narrative, which often leads to an Overreaction.

As I reflected on this today, it felt like such a clear picture of how quickly our thoughts can take us down a rabbit trail of anxiety, fear, worry, or discouragement when they go unchecked. One thought gets planted, and before we realize it, our emotions and reactions have followed.

Scripture speaks directly to this. Romans 8 reminds us that when our minds are set on the flesh, it leads to death, but when our minds are set on the Spirit, it leads to life and peace. Where our thoughts dwell matters.

Paul also tells us in 2 Corinthians 10:5 that we are to “take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” This is not about suppressing thoughts or pretending they do not exist. It is about slowing down long enough to notice what we are believing and choosing what aligns with truth.

In CBT, we practice this same process. We notice the thought, examine whether it is true, and intentionally replace it with something more accurate and grounded. This reflects the call in Romans 12 to be transformed by the renewing of our minds.

The enemy may place thoughts in our minds, but he does not control what we do with them. In Christ, we have the ability to pause, take our thoughts captive, and choose what we allow to take root.

This is a meaningful part of the work we do at Evergreen Christian Counseling. If your thoughts feel heavy or stuck on repeat, you do not have to navigate that alone.

01/22/2026

Starting your day with time with God changes everything.

Before the noise, before the stress, before the responsibilities, when you ground yourself in Him, your mind and heart start on the right track. It brings peace where there was anxiety, clarity where there was overwhelm, and strength where there was fear.

It doesn’t mean the hard things won’t come. It means you won’t face them alone.

When you stay intentional about focusing on the good, guarding your thoughts, and not giving so much energy to the negative, you begin to notice real shifts in how your days feel, how you respond, and how you carry yourself through challenges. Your mindset changes. Your peace grows. Your resilience strengthens.

And yes, the enemy will try to disrupt your peace, your confidence, and your joy, but a grounded spirit and a focused mind make you harder to shake.

Scripture:
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Phillipians 4:6

01/09/2026

Today was my first day back since the holidays, and once again I was reminded that this work is sacred. Sitting with people in their hardest moments and their hopeful ones is a privilege I never take lightly. Evergreen Christian Counseling continues to stretch me, humble me, and bless me in ways I could never fully explain.

“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
Psalm 147:3 NIV