Whitney & Murphy Bueler Mortuary

Whitney & Murphy Bueler Mortuary We are Chandler’s only family-owned funeral home and pride ourselves on our family serving yours.

Veterans who choose to be cremated are entitled to benefits for the burial of cremated remains.Available at no cost to t...
04/29/2026

Veterans who choose to be cremated are entitled to benefits for the burial of cremated remains.

Available at no cost to the family, Veterans burial benefits include a gravesite or niche space for the cremated remains in any of the 157 national cemeteries, opening and closing of the grave, perpetual care, a headstone/grave marker, and a Presidential Memorial Certificate.

A Veteran is also entitled to an honor guard consisting of service members (retired or active duty) that fold and present the flag, play taps, and occasionally perform a gun salute.

We are honored to serve our Veterans. For more information, please contact us at (480) 963-6351.

https://www.buelermortuary.com/services/veteran-benefits

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What happens when a person passes away and wishes to be buried in a different city or state? This scenario is actually ...
04/28/2026

What happens when a person passes away and wishes to be buried in a different city or state? This scenario is actually very common. At Whitney & Murphy Bueler Mortuary, we handle all of the details and facilitate burials throughout the entire State of Arizona and all other states in the U.S.

Wherever your loved one calls home, we’re here to help. We ensure that they are transported respectfully and safely to the cemetery of their choice.

Contact us today at (480) 963-6351 for more information.

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"Someone is sitting in the shade today because someone planted a tree a long time ago.” - Warren Buffett www.buelermortu...
04/24/2026

"Someone is sitting in the shade today because someone planted a tree a long time ago.”
- Warren Buffett

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Statistically, the average adult will be responsible for making final arrangements for a loved one approximately 1.6 tim...
04/22/2026

Statistically, the average adult will be responsible for making final arrangements for a loved one approximately 1.6 times during their lifetime. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, the most common age range for losing a parent is between the ages of 50-54.

Death is an inevitability that will touch us all. As such, wise individuals prepare for this event by having open conversations with family members and taking the time to plan ahead with a funeral home. Pre-planning allows you to place your wishes in writing and personalize your service.

We’re here to help you plan ahead for yourself or for a loved one. To begin this important process, contact us today at (480) 963-6351.

https://www.buelermortuary.com/plan-ahead/planning-ahead

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We walk many paths during our lifetime, punctuated by twists and turns. And if we are lucky, we are accompanied by a lov...
04/21/2026

We walk many paths during our lifetime, punctuated by twists and turns. And if we are lucky, we are accompanied by a loved one on this journey. But what do we do when our loved one passes away and disappears from our side?

Transitions in life are often painful, especially when they involve the death of a loved one. Wherever our path may lead, we can choose to carry their memory with us as we move forward. Their memory becomes a part of us and may be integral in defining who we are.

By acknowledging our pain, taking time to grieve, and seeking support, we can continue to press forward while keeping the memory of our loved one alive in our mind and in our heart.

Visit our website for more information on grief support.

https://www.buelermortuary.com/grief-support/griefplan-videos

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Delivering a eulogy at a funeral or memorial service is both an honor and a responsibility. Today we’re providing some ...
04/15/2026

Delivering a eulogy at a funeral or memorial service is both an honor and a responsibility. Today we’re providing some tips and ideas to consider.

A proper eulogy should:
▪️Honor the deceased
▪️Reflect the deceased’s character and values
▪️Provide comfort and meaning to those in mourning

Eulogies usually consist of:
▪️A brief introduction and your relationship to the deceased
▪️Two or three meaningful stories, traits, or examples
▪️A closing reflection, lesson, or farewell

The length guideline of a eulogy is generally five to seven minutes. Unless instructed otherwise by the family, shorter is usually better.

A eulogy is not a reading of the obituary, nor is it intended to be a full biography.

When selecting content, consider the following:
▪️Warmth and gentle humor are acceptable if natural and respectful
▪️Make it personal - describe what the deceased meant to you
▪️Avoid negativity, controversy, or unresolved family dynamics

Losing your composure briefly is human - it is appropriate to have emotions arise.

When writing a eulogy, consider the following tips:
▪️Write the eulogy in full, even if you plan to speak naturally
▪️Practice aloud several times
▪️Bring a physical copy printed in a large font - do not rely solely on memory

When delivering a eulogy, consider the following tips:
▪️Speak slightly slower than normal
▪️Pause between thoughts
▪️Breathe intentionally if emotions surge - silence is acceptable and the audience will wait

Remember that the family and/or the audience is not judging your speaking ability. Instead, they are seeking recognition of the person they loved, validation of their grief, and a moment of shared remembrance.

If you have questions concerning the preparation of a eulogy, please contact us at (480) 963-6351.

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Visit our website to download free Grief E-Booklets, provided by Dr. Jason Troyer.Dr. Troyer has made these compassionat...
04/14/2026

Visit our website to download free Grief E-Booklets, provided by Dr. Jason Troyer.

Dr. Troyer has made these compassionate and informative resources available to help you through your grief journey. Each topic contains a wealth of information, including videos, downloadable books, and links to additional resources.

Topics include “Grieving Your Spouse,” “Grieving Your Parent,” and “Grieving Your Child."

https://www.buelermortuary.com/grief-support/free-e-booklets

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A recent article explores the interesting fact that the death rate outpaced the birth rate in 21 states in 2022 - the la...
04/08/2026

A recent article explores the interesting fact that the death rate outpaced the birth rate in 21 states in 2022 - the latest year available for both data points.

Pennsylvania saw the biggest discrepancy with 16,929 more deaths than births. Florida and West Virginia followed, with 14,686 and 10,578 more deaths, respectively.

Health insurance expert Divya Sangameshwar notes this trend could have lasting economic implications. "Older Americans tend to have greater health care needs, including chronic disease management, hospitalizations and long-term care," she says. In addition to rising private health insurance costs, Sangameshwar notes that government health insurance programs like Medicare and Medicaid will also be affected.

In contrast, Texas had the largest surplus of births, coming in with 148,300 more births than deaths. California was the only other state with a six-figure birth surplus of 105,943. New York trailed a distant third with 33,830 more births than deaths.

Source: https://www.valuepenguin.com/fertility-rates-study

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National Self-Care Day is celebrated annually on April 5th. Taking good care of yourself physically, mentally, and emot...
04/06/2026

National Self-Care Day is celebrated annually on April 5th. Taking good care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally is of the utmost importance, especially during the grieving process.

Here are five tips to get you started:

1. Be kind to yourself and take all the time you need to grieve.

2. Be positive and look towards the future with hope.

3. Relieve your sadness. Cry when needed.

4. Take care of your physical body. Grief is physical as well as emotional.

5. Record your thoughts as you recover and practice some form of journaling.

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04/05/2026

“Easter is meant to be a symbol of hope, renewal, and new life.”
-- Janine di Giovanni
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