10/08/2025
5 Ways to Create a Space that Comforts Your Nervous System in Grief
When death changes your world, your nervous system can feel on constant high alert. Creating a space that feels safe and soothing can help your body find moments of calm in the midst of grief.
Here are five ways to tend to your senses and create a place of comfort:
Calming Scents – Choose smells that bring you peace or remind you of your loved one, lavender, vanilla, or a favorite cologne.
Comforting Flavors – Sip tea, taste warm soup, or enjoy a treat that soothes you or holds a memory.
Visual Connection – Keep photos, art, or mementos nearby that offer a sense of connection and grounding.
Soothing Sounds – Play music that is gentle, steady, and lifts or softens your mood.
A Cozy Spot – Create a soft, comfortable space to rest—piled pillows, a favorite blanket, or a chair near the window.
Grief is not just carried in your heart—it lives in your body too. Creating small sensory moments of comfort can help your body breathe a little easier.
If your grief feels heavy, our therapists are here to walk alongside you.