01/08/2026
So many highly sensitive people (as well as those who deal with high-functioning anxiety, huge overlap here) were praised for what actually kept their nervous systems on high alert.
“Easy.”
“Mature.”
“Calm under pressure.”
“Low-maintenance.”
“So capable.”
“So on-top-of things”.
These weren’t necessarily personality traits - they were adaptations or defense mechanisms in disguise.
Smart adaptions . Protective ones. Ones that helped you belong, succeed, or stay safe.
Healing isn’t about undoing these parts or certainly it’s not about becoming less sensitive.
It’s about helping your nervous system update, learning to harness that sensitivity and learn to better cope with those big thoughts and feelings… becoming more attuned to yourself, so that functioning no longer requires absolute exhaustion or self-neglect.
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