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By integrating EQ with AI, we use humans + tech to help you and your team achieve remarkable results without burning out.

Thinking about attending our couples retreat Here's why it matters❗ Most couples aren’t struggling because they don’t ca...
12/19/2025

Thinking about attending our couples retreat
Here's why it matters❗

Most couples aren’t struggling because they don’t care.
They’re struggling because they’re reacting on autopilot.

Stress hits. Defenses rise. Old habits take over. And suddenly, you’re disconnected again
without fully understanding how you got there.

The Enneagram helps slow that moment down. It brings awareness to the inner drivers shaping how you handle conflict, closeness, and vulnerability
So you can respond with intention instead of instinct.

Our Enneagram for Couples Retreat creates space to step out of survival mode and into deeper understanding. Through guided exercises, shared experiences, and meaningful conversation, couples begin building new ways of relating that actually last.

For more info, check out our website or register using this link below❗
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/big-self-school-enneagram-for-couples-retreat-tickets-1974980647281?aff=oddtdtcreator

Your Relationship Deserves This⏳ Early bird pricing ends today! Tonight, registration closes on the chance you’ve been c...
12/17/2025

Your Relationship Deserves This

⏳ Early bird pricing ends today!

Tonight, registration closes on the chance you’ve been considering.
And tomorrow, it’s easy to slip back into thinking, “We’ll do something like this someday.”
So let’s be honest about what’s actually happening here.

You’ve read the books.
You’ve taken the free online quizzes.
You understand intellectually that you and your partner communicate differently.
You know there are patterns. You can probably even name them.

But knowing and changing are two very different things.

This retreat is the bridge between the two.
It’s one full day where you stop thinking about improving your communication and actually practice it together. With expert guidance. With couples who understand what you’re navigating. With insights and tools meant to last far beyond the room.

Your relationship is worth one day of focused attention.

The only question is: are you going to give it that day?

⏰ Early bird pricing ends tonight.
❤️ 2-for-1 for the first 10 couples may already be gone.

This is your moment.

To learn more, visit our website or click the link below
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/big-self-school-enneagram-for-couples-retreat-tickets-1974980647281?aff=oddtdtcreator

Understanding each other is powerful ❗ but knowing how to use that understandingto build your future together is even be...
12/16/2025

Understanding each other is powerful ❗
but knowing how to use that understanding
to build your future together is even better

By the end of the retreat, you and your partner
will walk away with a clear sense of:

-A deeper awareness of what helps each of
You feel truly supported, understood, and connected

-How can you grow together instead of growing apart

-The communication habits that move your relationship forward

-The patterns you’re committed to breaking

-The vision you’re building as a team

This becomes the foundation for long-term closeness, intentional partnership, and a relationship that evolves with you, not against you.
🌟 Check out our website for more information, and click this link below to get tickets🌟
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/big-self-school-enneagram-for-couples-retreat-tickets-1974980647281?aff=oddtdtcreator

Reason  #2 to Attend Our Enneagram for Couples Retreat: The 2 for 1 deal is ending very soon❗ That means that the first ...
12/15/2025

Reason #2 to Attend Our
Enneagram for Couples Retreat:
The 2 for 1 deal is ending very soon❗

That means that the first 10 couples to register receive one
additional complimentary ticket
That means two couples, four people total, attend the full retreat for $297
Not $297 per couple. $297 total
That's professional assessments, the full-day experience, all the courses, all the resources for both couples, at half price per couple.

Grab a couple of friends you care about and register together.
Split the cost. Show up together.
Transform your relationships together.

Early bird pricing also ends December 17
Get your tickets now

🌟 To learn more, head over to our website or click the link below🌟
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/big-self-school-enneagram-for-couples-retreat-tickets-1974980647281?aff=oddtdtcreator

Reason  #4 why you should attend Big Self School Enneagram Couples Retreat: You’ll get the kind of intentional connectio...
12/13/2025

Reason #4 why you should attend Big Self School Enneagram Couples Retreat:
You’ll get the kind of intentional connection most couples rarely make time for

Busy schedules, stress, and routine can make even
the best relationships feel like they are running on autopilot.

This retreat gives you something priceless:
space.

Space to talk.
Space to reflect.
Space to actually see each other again
without distractions tugging at your attention.

This is a reset
a chance to reconnect emotionally, revisit your “why,” and strengthen the bond that gets diluted in the day-to-day.
Couples leave feeling lighter, closer, and more aligned than they’ve felt in months
(sometimes years)
Early bird pricing ends December 17❗
First 10 couples get 2-for-1

🌟 To learn more, visit our website or click the link below to register🌟
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/big-self-school-enneagram-for-couples-retreat-tickets-1974980647281?aff=oddtdtcreator

Reason  #5 to Attend Our Enneagram for Couples Retreat: ✨ Professional Assessment Included ✨'Here’s what you and your pa...
12/12/2025

Reason #5 to Attend Our Enneagram for Couples Retreat:
✨ Professional Assessment Included ✨'

Here’s what you and your partner are getting:

- Comprehensive Enneagram assessments through the Emma Platform, not the free quizzes that give you three paragraphs. This is the real deal.
-Detailed heat maps showing your full Enneagram profile, not just your core type, but how you show up across all nine types.Because you’re more complex than a single number.
- Ongoing AI chat support through Emma.
Got questions after the retreat?

You’ll have continued access to explore your patterns and get personalized insights anytime.
This assessment alone is powerful.
But paired with a full day immersive retreat, lifetime access to your personalized module course, and practical workbooks?

You’re not just attending an event, you’re getting a complete toolkit for transforming your relationship communication❗

No upsells. No “unlock the real version for extra.”
Everything you need is included.

Early bird sale ends in just a few days
First 10 couples get 2-for-1

🌟 To learn more, check out our website or click the link below🌟
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/big-self-school-enneagram-for-couples-retreat-tickets-1974980647281?aff=oddtdtcreator

Reason  #6 to Attend Our Enneagram for Couples Retreat❗ You'll Actually Practice, Not Just LearnLet me be blunt: You don...
12/10/2025

Reason #6 to Attend Our Enneagram for Couples Retreat❗
You'll Actually Practice, Not Just Learn
Let me be blunt:
You don't need another workshop where someone talks AT you about communication for three hours while you take notes you'll never look at again.

You need to actually DO the thing

Our retreat is built around participation, not presentation.
You will practice real communication skills with your partner in real-time
You will work through actual scenarios.
You will try new approaches and get immediate feedback on what's working

Think of it like learning to swim
You can read every book about swimming technique, watch all the YouTube videos, and understand the biomechanics perfectly...
But at some point, you have to get in the water

This retreat is getting into the water

Our Breaking Through transformation sessions give you structured opportunities to apply what you're learning immediately, not next week when you're back home and the moment has passed, but RIGHT THEN, while you're still in learning mode.
Because knowing what to do and actually being able to do it are two completely different things.

❗ Join us on February 14th!
Early bird pricing ends December 17
First 10 couples get 2-for-1

🌟 To learn more, check out our website or click this link below🌟
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/big-self-school-enneagram-for-couples-retreat-tickets-1974980647281?aff=oddtdtcreator

Reason  #7 to Attend Our Enneagram for Couples Retreat❗ Move From "Good Enough" to "Really Good"Most couples aren't in c...
12/09/2025

Reason #7 to Attend Our Enneagram for Couples Retreat❗
Move From "Good Enough" to "Really Good"

Most couples aren't in crisis. You're functional. You get along. You're not fighting all the time.

You're just... stuck at "good enough."
Good enough communication. Good enough understanding. Good enough connection.
And "good enough" can last for years. Decades, even. It's comfortable. It's familiar. It works... mostly.

Here's the thing:
You didn't commit to your partner for "good enough." You committed because you wanted something amazing.

The Enneagram helps you identify exactly where you've settled into "good enough" patterns and shows you what "really good" could look like for your specific type combination.
Our retreat gives you one full day to practice moving from functional to flourishing

Because your relationship isn't broken. It's just ready for the next level.
Early bird pricing ends December 17
First 10 couples get 2-for-1

🌟 To learn more, check out our website or click the link below🌟

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/big-self-school-enneagram-for-couples-retreat-tickets-1974980647281?aff=oddtdtcreator

Join us on February 14th!Here’s a closer look at what you’ll receive❗  -Full-day retreat with expert facilitation  -Brea...
12/08/2025

Join us on February 14th!
Here’s a closer look at what you’ll receive❗
-Full-day retreat with expert facilitation
-Breakfast & lunch included
-Small group coaching sessions
-Couples workbook + all materials
-2 premium Enneagram assessments with personalized reports
-Lifetime access to our Enneagram course

But here's what you really get❗
→ The ability to understand why you shut down
when your partner needs you most
→ Tools to break through defensive patterns that keep you disconnected
→ A framework for communicating that works with your natural
wiring, not against it
→ Connection with other couples navigating the same challenges

Some investments pay dividends forever. This is one of them.

🌟 For more information, head over to our website or click the link below🌟
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/big-self-school-enneagram-for-couples-retreat-tickets-1974980647281?aff=oddtdtcreator

Reason  #8 to Attend Our Enneagram for Couples Retreat: You're Not Alone in Your Patterns❗ There's something profoundly ...
12/08/2025

Reason #8 to Attend Our Enneagram for Couples Retreat:
You're Not Alone in Your Patterns❗

There's something profoundly relieving about sitting across from another couple and hearing them say, "Wait, you do that too?"

That thing you thought was just YOUR weird relationship quirk?
Turns out it's a Type 8/Type 2 thing. Or a Type 5/Type 7 thing.
Or whatever your specific combination is.

In our Type Alike Gatherings, you'll meet other couples who share your exact Enneagram dynamics.
Not just similar, the SAME core patterns, the same communication loops, the same "how did they know that about us?" moments.

This isn't group therapy. It's recognition. It's validation.
It's the relief of discovering you're not broken, you're not alone, and other people have figured out how to navigate what you're navigating.

Plus, you'll learn from couples who are a few steps ahead who've cracked the code on challenges you're still working through.

One of our past participants said, "Hearing another couple describe our exact dynamic made me realize we weren't crazy. We just needed better tools."

That's what community does
That's what February 14th offers

Early bird pricing ends December 17
First 10 couples get 2-for-1

🌟 For more info, head over to our website or click the link below🌟

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/big-self-school-enneagram-for-couples-retreat-tickets-1974980647281?aff=oddtdtcreator

Finally Understand Why "We Should Talk" Fills You With DreadThose three words shouldn't trigger an immediate urge to reo...
12/05/2025

Finally Understand Why "We Should Talk" Fills You With Dread

Those three words shouldn't trigger an immediate urge to reorganize the garage, check your email, or suddenly remember you need to return that thing to that place.
But they do.

And if we're being honest, sometimes "we should talk" becomes its own problem
the dreaded Big Conversation that gets avoided until it becomes an even BIGGER conversation.

Here's what the Enneagram reveals: different types have completely different relationships with conflict, vulnerability, and "processing." What feels like a connection to one type feels like an interrogation to another. What seems like avoiding one type is actually processing time for another.

At our retreat, you'll discover:
-Why "we should talk" triggers your specific type combination
-How does your partner experience these conversations differently from you?
-Practical ways to initiate important conversations that don't send either of you running

Because "we should talk" should mean "we're going to understand each other better,"
not "brace for impact."

❗ Early bird pricing ends December 17❗
First 10 couples get 2-for-1

Transform Your Relationship with a Deeper Knowledge and Application of the Enneagram

Happy Friday!Here’s to entering the weekend with a little more ease and a lot less pressure. ✨
12/05/2025

Happy Friday!
Here’s to entering the weekend with a little more ease and a lot less pressure. ✨

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From Burnout to Big Self

We hear a lot about how we live in the Information Age. It’s all around us, all this data. We have the sum total of human knowledge at our fingertips. Data is the new oil.

For all our access to knowledge, we still seem to be ignorant of one of the most critical parts of our knowledge tree: self-knowledge.

We’re still living as students from the age-old lessons of hustle, grind, sleep when you die. We’re shackled to work we hate in order to pay for things we don’t need to impress people we barely know. We minimize parts of our personalities (or disown them altogether) in order to fit into slots prescribed by others.

If you only focus on the outer part of your ambition, you’re going to burn from the inside out. You burn out. You die to your soul the entire time you’re aspiring to whatever it is you think you’re doing all this grinding for.