Healing Roots On Up

Healing Roots On Up Mental Health & Human Rights Advocate | Exvangelical | TBI Survivor | Trauma Recovery ❤️‍🩹 | Disabled Vet | Deconstructionist 🌈 ♌️

Codependency can look like little things… or it can cost you your whole sense of self. 💙What have you learned about code...
09/05/2025

Codependency can look like little things… or it can cost you your whole sense of self. 💙

What have you learned about codependency in your own life? Share your experience — someone else might need your insight today.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) has been the single most helpful practice in my healing journey. Developed by ps...
09/04/2025

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) has been the single most helpful practice in my healing journey. Developed by psychologist Steven C. Hayes, author of A Liberated Mind, ACT is about learning to make space for pain instead of fighting it, while committing to live in alignment with your values.

For me, this has meant breaking free from old patterns, being more present with my kids, and choosing actions that create the life I want to build. Over the last few years, ACT has given me tools to carry struggle differently with compassion and purpose.

If you’re curious, I recommend A Liberated Mind by Steven C. Hayes and The Happiness Trap by Russ Harris. Both are incredible guides.

Healing is not about erasing struggle, it is about learning how to hold it while still moving forward.

I don’t just speak about su***de prevention, I’ve lived it. There was a point in my life when I came frighteningly close...
09/01/2025

I don’t just speak about su***de prevention, I’ve lived it. There was a point in my life when I came frighteningly close to ending it all. The pain, the loneliness, the weight of everything I was carrying felt unbearable. In that moment, I truly believed the world would be better off without me.

But I didn’t give up. I took steps, hard steps, to fight my way back:
   •   I went to therapy and began doing the work.
   •   I became accountable for the ways I had been living.
   •   I learned to feel my emotions instead of running from them.
   •   I started finding safer people who could hold space for me.
   •   I found hope knowing that if I could pull myself through this darkness, I could one day help someone else pull through theirs.

That hope became my mission. 🌱
It is why I show up here. It is why I speak about healing, trauma, and the roots we all carry. Because someone out there right now is where I once was, and I want you to know: you are not alone, and your story is not over.

📞 In the U.S.: Dial 988 (Su***de & Crisis Lifeline, 24/7)
💬 Text HOME to 741741
🎖 Veterans: Dial 988, then press 1
🌍 Outside the U.S.: Search “findahelpline”

💜 Please, stay. There is life beyond this pain.

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We’ve all heard these before… 👀Some sound comforting, others just make you want to cringe.Which ones have you heard the ...
08/25/2025

We’ve all heard these before… 👀
Some sound comforting, others just make you want to cringe.
Which ones have you heard the most, and which ones make you roll your eyes the hardest? 😂👇

When people hear the word patriarchy, most think it means hating men. But it’s not about that. It’s a system where power...
08/21/2025

When people hear the word patriarchy, most think it means hating men. But it’s not about that. It’s a system where power and roles are unevenly distributed, and everyone ends up limited by it.

The more we can name it, the more we can reimagine something better: relationships rooted in respect, shared power, and love instead of control.

If this made you think, let me know your thoughts below and share this with someone who needs to see it. Let’s keep building these conversations together. 💬✨

Chapter 50 begins now. ✨This milestone isn’t just about age; it’s about becoming.I’ve walked through pain, healed old wo...
08/20/2025

Chapter 50 begins now. ✨
This milestone isn’t just about age; it’s about becoming.
I’ve walked through pain, healed old wounds, and discovered strength in vulnerability.
I’ve learned that growth doesn’t stop, love expands when it’s shared, and the best chapters are always ahead.
Here’s to 50 years of lessons, resilience, and gratitude; and to the next chapter filled with purpose, freedom, and joy.

Every scar has a story… and this is mine. From the roots of pain to the branches of healing, my journey has been anythin...
08/15/2025

Every scar has a story… and this is mine. From the roots of pain to the branches of healing, my journey has been anything but ordinary. I hope my story reminds you that no matter where you start, you can grow toward the light. 🌱💛

In simple terms, this means that real clarity and purpose doesn’t come from external validation or chasing what others e...
03/05/2025

In simple terms, this means that real clarity and purpose doesn’t come from external validation or chasing what others expect. Instead, true awareness comes from looking within, understanding yourself, and embracing your authentic path.

Steps to “Wake Up” to Your True Self:
1️⃣ Reflect Daily – Spend time journaling or meditating to understand your thoughts and emotions.
2️⃣ Face Your Shadows – Notice what triggers you and explore the deeper reasons behind them.
3️⃣ Trust Your Intuition – Listen to your gut feelings instead of always seeking external advice.
4️⃣ Embrace Growth – Let go of limiting beliefs and be open to learning more about yourself.
5️⃣ Live Authentically – Stop seeking approval and align your actions with what truly matters to you.

Great hike with Benjamin
03/05/2025

Great hike with Benjamin

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