08/15/2025
Do you wanna know a secret?
I'm still that same 15 year old trying to figure out life and what it all means, and I've learned that making moves in silence gives you the best results. So, let's dish, is that something you do in your everyday life? Too often we're all worried about views, likes, reactions and who is in the know of the who, what, where and why of our lives. But that can feel like a burden and it's soul crushing to have to live up to that expectation (hello again, people pleasing!)
I used to THRIVEEEE on who was all up in my circle, the one I felt had to stretch across time-zones and the expectations of the friendships or relationships I was in; had to move literal mountains or I didn't see them as being enough for me. I invited people in without surveying their true motives for why they wanted to be around me. I overlooked personalities and people I would never normally mesh with, for the sake of belonging and the need to self-gratify in the unhealthiest ways; and this was a constant.
We all grew up hearing Silence is Golden, and do you truly value yours? Has being one with yourself and the path you've set yourself on been more rewarding than being at the center of it all? These circles are toxic and when we don't remove ourselves at the right time, we become complacent to everyone and everything around us.
Never settle for complacency; know that there is more for you out there! And be LOUD with your SILENCE! Show the world what you can do on your own or show no one at all. It's your story to tell and you control your true audience.
