Matthews Counseling, LLC

05/04/2026

We're happy to welcome Alizah Kaplove to our team at Matthews Counseling! Alizah works with children, teens, and young adults and is offering evening and weekend appointments. She is scheduling new clients and will soon be accepting insurance.

https://www.matthewscounselingllc.com/alizah-kaplove-lsw

04/06/2026

Matthews Counseling and The Eclectic Nest. Both in Exton, PA at 558 West Uwchlan Avenue.

We have 12 therapists, we see clients ages 6 and up, and provide therapy for many different issues. We also offer trauma therapy and couples counseling.

Currently scheduling new clients, insurance accepted.

https://matthewscounselingllc.com

https://eclecticnestcounseling.com

03/30/2026

I came across this article today. You need a WSJ membership to read it, but the gist, if you aren't aware, is that the field of counseling or therapy is becoming increasingly female dominated (70+%). This has implications for men and boys, because when they do go to therapy, they often prefer to meet with a male. This is difficult when we are trying to reduce stigma and get more men and boys to talk to somebody.

FYI, 3 of our 7 therapists at Matthews Counseling are male. If you are looking for a male therapist, please feel free to reach out.

Psychology is increasingly a female-dominated profession. That may have implications for boys and men.

03/12/2026

Now open in Exton! Our new therapy space, The Eclectic Nest, with 5 therapists accepting new clients.

We offer:
- individual therapy for ages 6+
- trauma therapy, including EMDR
- couples counseling

So far we are accepting insurance through Aetna, Blue Cross Blue Shield, and Quest Behavioral Health. More to come!

Matthews Counseling accepts these insurances as well as Ambetter, Cigna, Imagine Healthcare, and Medicare.

Eclectic Nest open house coming soon!

A unique therapy space for your healing journey. Counseling for individuals from children to adults, couples therapy, and trauma-focused therapy.

02/17/2026

Erin Matthews and I have been hard at work these past few months launching our new practice, The Eclectic Nest. We continue to operate Matthews Counseling, but we now have a brand new, cozy and unique space across the hall. We can't wait for everyone to see it! We continue onboarding new therapists and getting credentialed with insurances, but we are now open for business and scheduling new clients. - Jesse Matthews

Erin Matthews - The Eclectic Nest, Psychologist, Exton, PA, 19341, (484) 578-3474, The Eclectic Nest is a thoughtfully curated therapy space where comfort, creativity, and care convene. Blending timeless antiques with a touch of rock ’n’ roll edge, our office is intentionally designed to feel bo...

01/14/2026

It's not about having anxiety or not. Anxiety is a good thing. It motivates you to study for tests, to be on time for work, to double check the stove you don't remember turning off, or to prepare for an interview or a talk. This is healthy or functional anxiety.

It's when the anxiety starts to bother you or to create a negative impact on your life that you ought to do something about it.

We all feel anxious sometimes. But when does typical anxiousness become an anxiety disorder?

12/03/2025

In moments of intense anxiety or panic, the mind can feel trapped in a loop of racing thoughts and overwhelming fear. But research and mental health experts are discovering that something as simple as sour candy may offer surprising relief, through the power of sensory distraction.

During a panic attack, the brain’s threat system goes into overdrive. Your heart races, breathing quickens, and you may feel out of control. Sour candy can help interrupt this cycle by shocking the senses. Its intense taste and sharp flavor instantly capture your attention and redirect it away from anxious thoughts.

This technique is rooted in grounding, a method used in cognitive behavioral therapy. Grounding helps people stay present by focusing on strong external stimuli. Sour candy works quickly because it activates both taste and salivary reflexes, forcing the brain to process something new and immediate instead of the fear-based signals it was stuck on.

Therapists often suggest keeping sour candies, like lemon drops or sour gummies, on hand for those who deal with panic attacks or high anxiety. While it’s not a cure, it can provide fast, effective support in the middle of an episode, helping to calm the nervous system and slow the spiral.

It’s a reminder that small tools can make a big difference. Managing mental health often comes down to having the right strategies ready in the moment.

So next time anxiety strikes, a tiny burst of sour might just bring you back to center.

10/29/2025

Signs of anxiety attacks, and the difference between anxiety and panic attacks

Signs of anxiety attacks can look very different for everyone. But you may experience common symptoms, such as heightened fear or increased heart rate.

10/08/2025

In 2025 a lot of psychological language is miused or overused, but many of these behaviors are in fact abusive. There is no “might” about it. And if you are on the receiving end, you are being abused. One problem in abusive relationships is that no one wants to admit that abuse is happening. Excuses get made, hollow promises are made, people wish for change, and the cycle continues.

If you recognize any of these behaviors in your relationship, call it what it is. Be specific, set boundaries, and ask your partner to change their behavior. Also consider if you are behaving in these ways. If your partner cares or has not considered their behavior to be abusive, they will be willing to go to therapy, as a couple or on their own. Whether or not they go, therapy coukd also benefit you.

If your partner doesn’t change or won’t go to therapy, you should reconsider being in the relationship. No one deserves abuse and everyone deserves respect, love, and to feel safe in a relationship.

*If you are in a physically abusive relationship or fear for your safety, you may need to skip these steps. You should talk to someone you trust and seek out resources like a local domestic abuse center*

https://www.elitedaily.com/p/9-signs-your-partner-is-verbally-abusive-according-to-experts-so-be-careful-11455306?utm_campaign=fbproliqed&utm_medium=pro&utm_source=facebook&utm_term=6NIMTM3&lsid=qaomte2ndgw&fbclid=IwdGRjcANTJ3VleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHiMrsIYYhG82JPHu50sCeMK9ZT5Zx1IpP5eyow2Q-OB1i3ra3MLvhnckY6cQ_aem_fuoO_zKm63v52yR9af0qLA

When I was a teenager, I was addicted to Lifetime movies. We had really limited cable, so I ended up watching a ton of what my friends jokingly referred to as the "woman in peril" channel. Honestly, it earned the name. It seemed like every movie was…

09/30/2025

We are excited to announce that we now offer couples therapy! We have a new therapist joining us this week who works with couples and individuals. She is now scheduling new clients. More details coming soon!

For inquiries, you can email: info@matthewscounselingllc.com

09/25/2025

The American Psychological Association is deeply concerned about the Administration’s recent announcement on autism.

Promoting unsupported scientific theories risks fueling stigma, undermines public trust and distracts from real scientific progress.

09/15/2025

This is a great graphic. No type of self-care alone will be enough to protect you from being overstressed, but having multiple types will. ✌