Demure Lyfe

Demure Lyfe Just shining my light and giving my offerings as I know how. I am a Shaman, Oracle, and Metaphysical Teacher operating in Chester New York.

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This Leo Full Moon on Feb 1 isn’t just emotional.It’s exposing.If you’ve been over-explaining, over-functioning, or tole...
01/29/2026

This Leo Full Moon on Feb 1 isn’t just emotional.
It’s exposing.

If you’ve been over-explaining, over-functioning, or tolerating too much in the name of peace — this is the moment your spirit says no.

And it’s not because you’re “triggered.”
It’s because your nervous system has stopped co-signing what your mouth keeps trying to rationalize.

Here’s the part people don’t tell you:
Mars and Pluto are both involved in this moon.

Which means:
• Power dynamics are getting loud
• Control patterns are surfacing
• Your body might feel restless, agitated, or completely over it

Mars brings pressure. Pluto brings truth.
Put them together under a Leo Moon and you get a full-body reminder that being seen is not the same as being respected.

And if you’ve been dimming, explaining, or managing everyone’s perception of you — this moon will make that feel unbearable.

If it’s landing heavy, I got you.
I’m hosting a LIVE Full Moon Offering on Patreon — for the ones ready to move with this energy instead of getting spun by it.

Readings. Ritual. Realignment.
🕯️ Zoom details are already inside Patreon.
🌕 FEB 1, 2026
This container is for people who are done betraying themselves quietly.

Not every thought is a download.Not every pull is a sign.Not every glitch is spirit.Sometimes you’re overwhelmed.Sometim...
01/29/2026

Not every thought is a download.
Not every pull is a sign.
Not every glitch is spirit.

Sometimes you’re overwhelmed.
Sometimes it’s trauma.
Sometimes it’s just noise.

And if you don’t slow down enough to test it, you’ll build your whole life around a message that was never yours to begin with.

This carousel isn’t here to scare you.
It’s here to sharpen you.

Because real spirit communication is clear.
It’s timely.
It’s precise.
It doesn’t need to shout to be heard.

People swear they’re happy for you, but their energy says otherwise.Envy don’t need a spell.It just needs a scroll, a st...
01/28/2026

People swear they’re happy for you, but their energy says otherwise.
Envy don’t need a spell.
It just needs a scroll, a stare, and a little unprocessed resentment.

This is why I move different now.
Not because I’m scared —
Because I know how fast spiritual shade can latch on when you’re lit.

Eyes carry intention.
Energy travels.
Your spirit picks up what your mind can’t always explain.

So no, I don’t post every blessing in real time.
I protect what’s still rooting.
I share what’s sealed.

If this hit, save it.
If you feel it in your body — send it to the one person who needs to see it.

A lot of folks pray with their heart in the right place.But the rest of them ain’t in agreement yet.The mind is still do...
01/28/2026

A lot of folks pray with their heart in the right place.
But the rest of them ain’t in agreement yet.

The mind is still doubting.
The mouth is still repeating old stories.
And the body is still moving in fear or habit.

That doesn’t mean you’re not spiritual.
It doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong.
It just means your energy’s not all facing the same direction.

The Three Gates Prayer is how I check myself:
Is my mind clear?
Is my mouth clean?
Is my movement aligned?

It’s not about perfection.
It’s about learning how to pause long enough to choose truth over trauma.

If your prayers have felt like they’re floating in circles lately — come back to the gates.

This is a checkpoint. A practice. A way to pull your power back in.

Save this if you need it.
Come back to it when you’re about to move sideways.
You’ll feel the shift immediately.

Bring the tea. I’ll bring the truth. ☕️ASK SIENNA is open for questions, confessions, and “I need to know what this real...
01/28/2026

Bring the tea. I’ll bring the truth. ☕️
ASK SIENNA is open for questions, confessions, and “I need to know what this really is.”

I’ve been feeling called to go old school with it. Growing up, I lived for advice columns. The letters, the honesty, the way one person’s story would end up helping everybody else. So I’m bringing that energy back, Demure Lyfe style. 📬🕯️

I’m not judging you.
I am going to tell you what it is. 🙂

Be honest: what category do you need right now?
1. Relationships
2. Spiritual hygiene
3. Purpose + money
4. Family healing

📩 info@demurelyfe.com
Subject: ASK SIENNA
Anonymous submissions welcome (letters will be shared publicly within my newsletter, edited for privacy + clarity).

This isn’t content. This is intel.Over the last few days, Spirit’s been talking. I’ve been listening.What’s coming throu...
01/27/2026

This isn’t content. This is intel.

Over the last few days, Spirit’s been talking. I’ve been listening.
What’s coming through isn’t fear — it’s pattern. It’s energy. It’s game.

Get out of your feelings and into your focus.
Because your nervous system is being farmed … and if you’re not careful, your clarity will be too.

You don’t need hope.
You need presence. Be available to your community.


Only 20 bottles of my Black Hawk Oil left. When it’s gone, it’s gone until Spring/Summer when I can forage fresh ingredi...
01/27/2026

Only 20 bottles of my Black Hawk Oil left. When it’s gone, it’s gone until Spring/Summer when I can forage fresh ingredients again. 🌿🦅

This is my most potent formulation for strength and protection. Period.

Black Hawk is honored in Conjure as a powerful Afro-Indigenous Indian Spirit Guide and warrior current, rooted in the Spiritual Church Movement and revered across Louisiana traditions. This oil is made to carry that authoritative, don’t-play-with-me energy, the kind that straightens your spine and clears your path.

What’s inside (and why it hits):
• A rooted blend of herbs + roots + intention crafted for spiritual strength and protection
• Calamus root to amplify command, dominance, and inner authority
• A touch of marigold for support in court matters and legal situations

How to work it:
• Dress hands + feet to guide your steps and move you where you need to go
• Anoint your hands before signing contracts
• Dress items of value for protection

Scent profile: earthy with woody undertones. Gender-neutral energy. And yes, a little goes a long way.

⚠️ Skin test first. This formula contains trace amounts of bee venom. If you have a bee allergy, leave a note at checkout so I can swap in a substitute.

20 bottles. After that, we wait for the land to open back up. 🌞🌱

🧬 Some of the pain you’re carrying isn’t yours. It’s coded. It’s passed. It’s patterned.And your natal chart holds the r...
01/23/2026

🧬 Some of the pain you’re carrying isn’t yours. It’s coded. It’s passed. It’s patterned.
And your natal chart holds the receipts.

So many people are trying to “heal the wound” without knowing where it even lives.
But ancestral pain shows up in exact placements. Some years ago, I started looking into my own chart and I’ve unlocked a lot of these discoveries myself.

The article on my Patreon I show where I started…

➡️ The house that carries your family’s silence.
➡️ The planet that exposes their survival blueprint.
➡️ The wound you didn’t start, but were born to break.

The full article on Patreon breaks this down in clear language:
🔍 How to decode the chart
🔍 Which placements = ancestral trauma signatures
🔍 What each planet reveals about lineage pain
🔍 How to start unraveling inherited loops with strategy, not just sage

🌑 It’s pretty liberating.
And it’s up now as a Patreon Exclusive for the ones actually ready to go deeper.

📌 Tap the link in bio to join the Patreon
🧿 Read the full breakdown now
🗝️ Then come tell me what placements hit…

lineagehealing

In the Shoppe alllll day today ✨🔮I’ve got a few openings for walk-in readings, in store shopping + candle magic work.Jus...
01/22/2026

In the Shoppe alllll day today ✨🔮

I’ve got a few openings for walk-in readings, in store shopping + candle magic work.
Just message me a quick heads up that you’re on your way, and I’ll tell you the best time to come in so you’re not waiting around.

Right now I’m in here handling a few newsletters, then getting ready for my mentee call tonight 🕯️📚

Also: My Mentorship program Flesh and Spirit is taking applications is opening back up! We’re starting back up March 19th.
If you feel called, don’t overthink it.

Link in bio. 🫶🏾✨

Cycles don’t end because you understand them.They end because you refuse to keep paying the price.If it’s a cycle, it’ll...
01/21/2026

Cycles don’t end because you understand them.
They end because you refuse to keep paying the price.

If it’s a cycle, it’ll show up dressed as:
• “Maybe I’m overreacting.”
• “Let me just explain it better.”
• “This time will be different.”
• “I miss them.”
• “I can handle it now.”

That’s not intuition. That’s your nervous system begging for familiar pain because unfamiliar peace can feel like a threat.

Here’s the truth:
A cycle is a contract you keep renewing with your behavior.
New face. Same lesson. Same consequence.

So do this instead:

THE 24-HOUR RULE:
If you want to go back, wait 24 hours.
Regulate first. Decide after.
Because the version of you that wants to run back isn’t your higher self.
It’s your old wiring reaching for what it already knows.

Regulate =
• drink water
• eat something real
• take a shower and imagine the old energy rinsing off
• step outside and let your body remember the earth
• pray, breathe, and close the spiritual doors you left open

Then ask one question:
“If I choose the old choice, what do I get besides familiarity?”

Cycles don’t break with insight. They break with obedience to your own boundary.
So wait 24 hours. Regulate first. Decide after.

And when you decide, decide like someone who’s done paying tuition to the same lesson.

Let me tell you the part nobody warns you about.For a long time early in my practice, inner child work was not giving wh...
01/21/2026

Let me tell you the part nobody warns you about.

For a long time early in my practice, inner child work was not giving what it was supposed to give. Because my “inner child” wasn’t just sad. She was trained by trauma.

So every time I tried to “heal,” it looked like:
• crying with no relief
• journaling the same story on repeat
• understanding everything… and still reacting the same way

And I had to swallow a truth that changed the whole game:

Sometimes you’re not blocked.
You’re protected.

Like… a part of you is literally on duty. Doing its job the only way it knows how, because back then certain feelings were not safe to feel.

That’s why I don’t do inner child work like a vibe. I’m not here to romanticize pain. I’m here for results: safety, structure, and proof.

Because it starts working when you:
• regulate before you go deep
• stop making it poetic and start mapping the pattern
• talk to the protector first (the “bouncer” part of you)
• update the memory instead of rewatching it
• set boundaries that prove you’re the adult now

It’s not easy. I’m not gonna lie to you.
But it is possible to bring the heavy stuff into the light without drowning in it.

If this hit, save it.
And if you’re ready to stop looping and actually shift, comment INNER.

I’ll DM you a quick protector map. If it fits, I’ll invite you to a consultation so we can clock your trigger loop, your protector system, and build a 7-day repair plan you can actually follow. 🧿

Shame doesn’t just sit quietly in the background.It warps your posture, your perception, your prayers.It makes you move ...
01/20/2026

Shame doesn’t just sit quietly in the background.
It warps your posture, your perception, your prayers.

It makes you move like you’re already guilty.
And then life keeps reflecting that guilt back to you louder — through people, moments, disrespect, embarrassment, silence, rejection…

You start to think,
“Why does this keep happening to me?”

But baby — it’s not “happening to you.”
It’s matching you.
Matching the version of you that believes they need to pay for existing.

This post is a mirror.
A loud one.
A spiritual one.

If it made you uncomfortable, that’s a good thing.
Shame only fights back when it’s being evicted.

📌 Save this.
🗣 Share it with your inner teenager.
🧿 Or send it to the friend who jokes too much to hide how much they hurt.

You’re not too much.
You’ve just been carrying too many people’s stories on your back.

It’s time to return that weight.

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