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Dr. Ari Graff, PsyD

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Dr. Ari Graff, PsyD

I am a clinical psychologist in Chicago, offering online psychotherapy and coaching services for adu I also run an online men’s coaching group.

I am also available for coaching online for people around the world. Please get in touch for a free consultation.

07/24/2025

How do you start your day feeling like a million bucks?

If you’re waking up with dread that leads right into avoidance, try this instead.

Go walk or run out in nature.

Nature won’t rush you.

It doesn’t nag.

You don’t need a login.

Research is showing that it actually replenishes attention and energy and improves mood.

06/22/2025

Healing isn’t always graceful.
Sometimes it looks like sleeping longer than you think you should.
It sounds like a shaky “no” that makes your stomach twist.
It means crying in your car before stepping into the next task.
It feels like everything’s getting harder before it gets better.

But that doesn’t mean you’re failing.
It means you’re feeling.
It means you’re finally tending to what you used to push past.

Healing isn’t linear. It’s deeply human.
Give yourself grace. Reach out today if you need help.
You’re not going backward. You’re just beginning to move differently.

06/04/2025

Fatherhood after divorce can feel like uncharted territory.

You’re still showing up for your kids, but maybe not in the way you imagined.
The routines are different. The house is quieter.
And some days, the grief hits harder than you'd expect.

Divorced dads often carry a heavy emotional load:
Worry about being a “good enough” parent.
Guilt about what their children are going through.
Pressure to stay strong and keep it all together.

But here’s the truth: you don’t have to do it alone.
You’re allowed to have questions.
You’re allowed to feel heartbroken and hopeful.
You’re allowed to rebuild, one connection at a time.

Your presence matters more than perfection ever could.

05/05/2025

Are you always the one who reaches out, apologizes first, or makes the effort to stay connected?

If it feels like you’re in a one-sided relationship, that feeling matters. Healthy relationships are built on mutual care, not one person carrying all the weight.

It’s okay to expect reciprocity. You deserve it.

04/24/2025

Life is full of ups and downs. Things change—relationships shift, we fall in love, we experience joy, and sometimes, we get hurt. Even our daily routines—like sleep, diet, and relationships—can be affected.

It’s easy for mental health struggles to creep up on us without warning. Arguments with your partner, snapping at loved ones, or feeling overwhelmed by anxiety and loneliness you can’t fully explain. If you’re noticing these signs, it’s okay. Your mind and body are signaling that it’s time to seek support. Therapy can help you regain balance and find peace again. Don’t wait—taking that first step is one of the most powerful acts of self-care you can make.

04/21/2025

More than a podcast…

It’s a friendship.

It’s a three brothers from different mothers growing together, challenging each other every week to raise our standards, be better parents, better partners, better coaches.

If you ever had a dream of putting yourself out there, finding your voice, sharing your strong opinions, or just giving yourself a chance to learn through conversations, think about creating your own podcast.

That’s my two cents. Check out the Nice Guy Show wherever you consume podcasts.

04/08/2025

Many men stay in unhappy marriages because they fear what’s next—loneliness, financial strain, or being a ‘bad guy.’ But staying in a relationship that no longer serves you isn’t noble—it’s self-sabotage. Coaching for men can help you explore your options with clarity and confidence.

03/31/2025

Have you been taught that being nice will make your relationship last? The truth is, relationships need more than just ‘niceness’—they need honesty, boundaries, and emotional depth. Stop people-pleasing and start showing up as your authentic self.

03/09/2025

Divorce isn’t just about signing papers—it’s about grieving the life you thought you’d have. Many men don’t realize they need to process this loss before they can truly move forward. You don’t have to do it alone.

02/16/2025

Loneliness in men is often overlooked, yet it can have a deep impact on mental health. Many men struggle in silence, feeling the weight of isolation but unsure how to reach out. Society teaches self-reliance, but real strength comes from connection.

Therapy offers a space to explore these feelings, break down barriers, and build meaningful relationships. You don’t have to go through this alone—support is within reach.

02/04/2025

After divorce, it’s common to feel lost or uncertain about the future. Men's coaching helps you rebuild your self-esteem, reframe your mindset, and prepare for healthier relationships moving forward. You’re not alone in this journey.

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Chicago, IL

Opening Hours

Monday	11am - 4pm
Tuesday	10am - 8pm
Wednesday	10am - 7pm
Thursday	9am - 4pm
Friday	10am - 4pm

Website

https://drarigraff.com/

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