Enliven Chicago

06/01/2018

Are you considering moving in with your partner? Read this first:

Are you sliding or deciding as you reach the important milestones in your relationship?

05/25/2018

Planning to hit the beach this Memorial Day weekend? This must-do exercise will give you all the body confidence you need—and it doesn't involve hitting the gym.

It’s that time of year again! With Chicago beaches opening for the season this Friday, having the ol’ bod beach-ready is at the top of everyone’s list. Some quick tips for making sure you’re all set: Look down, check the mirror, give a pinch or simply note that you do, in fact, have a body. ...

05/10/2018

It turns out, there are actual variations in the way we think, connect, and respond that are associated with either “male” or “female” brains—and this may be the reason you and your partner often feel stuck in the same old fights and miscommunications.

Read more in this week's blog by Amy Berrafato:

You: “I planned a few things for us to do Saturday.” Partner: “Can’t we just be spontaneous this weekend?” You: “What do you want to do for dinner?” Partner: “I hadn’t thought about that yet.” You: “How about we grab a drink before Mom’s party?” Partner: “What party?” B...

04/14/2018

Contrary to popular belief, scheduling s*x in advance is a great way to add a spark to your relationship. Don't believe us? See if this blog changes your mind:

The idea that s*x in a healthy relationship should happen organically is common, and it often leaves couples feeling stuck or broken when it doesn’t. But s*x is rarely actually spontaneous—even in the most vibrant relationships.

04/04/2018

Are you going to a place when you fight that prevents you from fully recovering? Find out if your low is too low in this week's blog:

You’ve heard it before: Every relationship has its highs and lows. Love is a roller coaster. Sure, we have to learn to navigate the natural ups and downs of a relationship; these are essential skills for building resilience as a healthy couple. I wonder though, in the midst of all this conflict, h...

03/20/2018

Be honest: Does your partner truly know what turns you on? Sharing your desires with your lover takes courage and vulnerability—but the payoffs are oh so worth it. Find out more in this week's blog by Enliven owner Kimberly Sharky.

What turns you on? It's a simple question. But the answer - and how to communicate that answer to a s*xual partner - often feels much more complicated

03/07/2018

Are you stuck in the "roommate stalemate"? If you’ve ever thought, “I love my partner, but sometimes we feel more like roommates than lovers,” then this week's blog is a must read:

If you’ve ever thought, “I love my partner, we’re such good friends, and I definitely don’t want a divorce, but…sometimes we feel more like roommates than lovers/romantic partners/spouses,” then you’re familiar with what we call the “roommate stalemate.” This dynamic, while surely ...

02/22/2018

What if date nights were something you looked forward to instead of reluctantly fit into your schedule? Kimberly Sharky gives date night the s*xy makeover it so desperately needs in the latest Enliven blog:

You know that date nights can add an extra spark to your relationship, but that same old routine will eventually start to feel more blah than erotic. Never fear: we have the secret solutions to give date night the s*xy makeover it so desperately needs.

02/09/2016

Whether you're ready to get your s*xy back, find it for the first time, or seduce your lover with the most gloriously s*xy pics you've ever taken, you must check out our lovely and talented friends at Revealed Studios.

Not only will these ladies make you feel incredibly comfortable in your own skin, but they will help you stretch and find ways to connect with your sensuality in the most authentic way that is truly YOU.

Check out their feature below that shares the various ways you can create a memorable keepsake for your eyes only or the best damn gift your lover has ever seen!

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02/09/2016

Our very own Amy Freier, AASECT-certified s*x therapist, featured in the oh-so-amazing The Every Girl blog on 4 Steps to Building a Smart Marriage. Check this out and be sure to spread the love by sharing with your friends!

Stressed about choosing between buttercream and ganache? Ivory versus platinum white? These decisions can be overwhelming when wedding pl...

12/10/2015

We have a brand-spanking new website and she is stunning! Take a look and be sure to sign up to receive all of the exciting news about ways we are planning to make Chicago sizzle with love and s*xy connection in 2016! www.enlivenchicago.com