06/24/2025
🌈 Infertility can feel isolating, especially when the world wasn’t built with your family in mind.
A few tips for LGBTQIA + individuals and couples navigating infertility:
1️⃣Find LGBTQIA+ providers: You should be have to be explaining or educating providers on your identity or family planning goals. Find a provider, whether that’s Dr.’s, therapists, or fertility clinics that understand you and your experience. Pay attention to language in their paperwork and website, and ask questions about their experiences working with LGBTQIA+ folks.
2️⃣Find your community: You deserve a community that honors every part of you, whether that’s a support group, therapist, or online community.
3️⃣Validate your path: There’s no one right way to build a family. No matter what your path looks like, your path is real and valid. It’s okay if it doesn’t look like anyone else’s, and it’s okay if it’s full of pivots you never thought you’d face.
4️⃣Protect your mental health: Fertility treatment can be emotionally exhausting, and when you add in the stress of navigating systems not built for LGBTQIA+ families, it’s a lot. It’s essential to have spaces that are light and bring you peace.
5️⃣Set boundaries: People may not always understand your path and you don’t owe anyone access to your story, even when people ask invasive questions or make assumptions about your family planning journey, your body, or your relationship. It’s okay to say “that’s not something I’m open to talking about.” Goes back to #4, protecting your mental health and well being.
You don’t owe softness to a system that wasn’t built for you. Protect your story. Guard your peace. You get to decide who walks along beside you.🧡
🏳️🌈Reach out at aypsych.com (link in bio) to learn more about our inclusive fertility support services.