12/16/2025
One thing about having existential anxiety is that I’m always very aware of how much potential time is left. In this season, I know that, if I make it to the average life expectancy of 81, I will have 46 Christmases left.
🙅🏽♀️I also know that I don’t want to spend a single one of them worried about gaining weight.
I think one of the saddest parts about diet culture is that it makes you feel guilty for breaking from your routine, enjoying precious family recipes, and relaxing.
The message is either to stay disciplined enough to not give in to temptation, or to be ready to saddle up come January 1 and dive right into intense workout challenges and rigid diet plans that will have you feeling burned out and wanting to quit before the month is over.
I don’t know about you, but as a lifelong resident of the Midwest, when it’s dark at 4:30 and cold as ever, I am not very eager to enter the year with top tier levels of motivation and determination.
💤 In short, January makes me want to hibernate.
For years, I didn’t accept that natural inclination. I would force myself to join a vigorous workout challenge that often involved exercising all 31 days of the month, and then I’d beat myself up for not wanting to do that.
I’m so glad I’ve found another way.
❎This year was the first year in my adult life that I didn’t set a single New Year’s resolution.
✅This year was also my most consistent, healthiest year.
And looking back, I attribute it to removing the pressure from myself.
1️⃣ I removed the pressure to set and keep a resolution to begin with.
2️⃣ I removed the pressure to be perfect and began to pride myself for my flexibility.
3️⃣ I removed the pressure to achieve anything. Health isn’t a race with a finish line, but a lifelong pursuit. Seeing that bigger picture made one day, one week, even one month seem so much less significant and relieved me of feeling pressured completely.
➡️In 2026, I want to bring the same no-pressure approach to you.
✨ The No Pressure January Guide to Realistic Resolutions launches January 5.
🤑The best part? I’M GIVING IT TO YOU FOR FREE!
📋All you have to do is join the list, and you’re in.
⬆️Link in bio!!