09/16/2024
“…the child would rather be bad himself than have bad objects … In becoming bad he is really taking upon himself the burden of badness which appears to reside in his objects. By this means he seeks to purge them of their badness; and, in proportion as he succeeds in doing so, he is rewarded by that sense of security which an environment of good objects so characteristically confers.
To say that the child takes upon himself the burden of badness which appears to reside in his objects is, of course, the same thing as to say that he internalizes bad objects. The sense of outer security resulting from this process of internalization is, however, liable to be seriously compromised by the resulting presence within him of internalized bad objects. Outer security is thus purchased at the price of inner insecurity”
- Ronald Fairbairn
From the book, "Psychoanalytic Studies of the Personality" (1952), p.65.
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Image / "L' élève puni [The punished pupil], Paris, 1956" by Robert Doisneau.