10/27/2025
Healing is so many things. Getting the toxic shame, hate, and other energy transfers from abusers out of our souls and bodies will transform the shame and the pain. It was never yours to hold.
As children, this energy transfer is too big to process. Too big to fight. Too big to even see. We become adults who hate ourselves instead of hating the person who made us hold their pain. Healing teaches us different ways of handing it back and saying, Hell No! This isn’t mine to hold.