01/12/2026
Habitual or mindless drinking is rarely random.
To understand it, you have to ask a different question.
What is drinking actually doing for you?
In my work, these are the most common functions:
Quieting negative or looping thoughts
Habit and association with certain places or times
Numbing physical pain or tension
“Boredom,” which often has loneliness underneath it
Seeking pleasure, relief, or excitement
For many people, alcohol becomes a fast, reliable way to temporarily meet real needs. Needs for relief, rest, comfort, or escape from pain. Especially when stress, trauma, burnout, or chronic illness are involved.
The goal of moderation counseling is not to take something away. It’s to understand what drinking is doing for you, and then build other ways to meet those same needs without while staying aligned with your values.
There are many paths toward feeling better and more free.
Abstinence is one option among many.
If you want help understanding your pattern and what would actually help, fill out our contact form to book a Discovery Call.
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