03/18/2026
Let’s talk about struggles of toddlerhood. They’re a great age and really quite funny, but they also really start to develop a sense of self. Which can sometimes drive the adults around them a little crazy.
Whether it’s introducing the potty, making your child try to put on their own shirt/pants/shoes, or learning how to share without screaming “NO MINE!!”, the key to success is patience and consistency. Your toddler WILL be mad at you, me, toys, the air, their food… sometimes with reason, others reasons they can’t explain, and sometimes for no reason at all but BIG emotions. It is up to us to show them they can do hard things, even things they don’t want to do, or know how to do but are being too stubborn to do (pick up clean up is a great example!)… asking them repeatedly, showing them what you want, and setting clear expectations help you to set the tone.
“I know you want to go to the park, but unless I see you put on your shoes we can’t leave. I will not put them on for you” is a healthy boundary to set for your children 2 and up. Don’t be afraid to ask your children to meet standards you set, and if you feel they are struggling set milestones.
“If you get your toes in I will help you get your heel tucked in, try for me… 😀” it helps develop both valuable life skills and confidence!
