05/27/2026
Weโre winding down Mental Health Awareness Month and here is your free mental health tip ๐:โฃ
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๐ฆ๐๐ผ๐ฝ ๐ฒ๐
๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ป๐ต๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐ฒ๐ฑ. People that caused generational trauma can ๐ด๐ต๐ช๐ญ๐ญ be causing generational trauma. People who abandoned your needs when you were younger can still abandon your needs in different ways when you are older.โฃ
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๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ผ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ปโ๐ ๐ฝ๐๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ ๐๐ผ ๐ด๐ฒ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ, ๐๐ผ ๐บ๐ผ๐๐ฒ ๐น๐ถ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐โ๐๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ ๐ด๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ๐ป ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟโฆ While the generational trauma patterns may present differently, they ๐ด๐ต๐ช๐ญ๐ญ present.โฃ
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The tough part of the healing journey is not expecting THEM to act different, but for you to act AND move different.โฃ
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Now hear me outโฆ Iโm not about to ask you to become a member of cancel culture. But I am going to ask you to start reclaiming your time.โฃ
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๐๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ค๐ฉ ๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ฅ๐ฐ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐จ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ ๐ด๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ?โฃ
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Some people stir those emotional wounds like they are mixing Kool-Aid ๐ซ . Remove the spoon and their access to you when you need to. Some people are safe sometimes, and then other times you see how their unhealed parts want to show up and try to damage your healed parts.โฃ
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Shift their access to you. ๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ถ๐ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ป ๐ฏ๐ ๐ต๐ผ๐ ๐บ๐๐ฐ๐ต ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ธ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐ด๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ผ ๐ธ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐ต๐๐ฟ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ๐. You can love people deeply and still stop giving their unhealed parts a front row seat to your peace.โฃ
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This next season of your life is calling for you to look at access to you differently. You deserve peace, joy and happiness even when life is going on. Your moments of peace require just thatโฆ peace. Itโs time to reevaluate the spoons you are giving to stir things in your life.โฃ
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Signed ๐,โฃ
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๐๐ฉ๐ฆ โ๐๐ณ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฆ๐ค๐ต ๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ญ-๐๐ช๐ฅโ ๐๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ณ