11/03/2025
Be the kindness. â¤ď¸
âTell her,â I whispered to my daughter as she pressed her body against mine.
She wrapped my free arm around her little shoulders while I finished loading the groceries onto the conveyer belt.
I smiled at the young cashier who had streaks of blue and purple swirling into her otherwise jet-black ponytail.
My daughter was right when sheâd whispered to me, âHer hair is so pretty.â
âTell her,â I repeated with a little nudge.
My girl only dug her pink cheeks deeper into my side as she nervously twisted the hem of my sleeve in her small fist.
The cashier looked down at my daughter, her expression mostly bland with a hint of concern.
âMy daughter thinks your hair is beautiful.â I explained.
The cashierâs face lit up. âYou do?â
This coaxed my little one from her hiding place. She looked up and nodded.
âThank you so much! You made my day,â the cashier said with a smile brilliant enough to compete with her highlights.
My daughter returned it with a beaming smile of her own.
As I walked out of the store, holding my daughterâs hand, I stole a glance back at the young woman. Her energy was clearly brighter now than it had been when we first entered her line.
After loading my groceries in the trunk, I climbed into the driverâs seat. It was then that my daughter made a declaration, âMom, I think Iâm gonna start telling everyone when I like their hair.â
âYou should, honey.â
And she did.
She still does.
Itâs a rare occasion if we make a trip out in public without her telling someone that she loves their hair, or nails, or shirt, or shoes. To be honest, I think she even does so more than me. And itâs one of my favorite things about this girl.
She learned, at a very young age, the power in raising up others. She learned that by simply telling people when you see beauty in them, you elicit the beauty of human connection.
So maybe we should all take this lesson to heart. Maybe next time you see something you admire, whether itâs her hair, her clothes, or her actions⌠Maybe you should muster up the courage to tell her.
Because that small second of effort on your part could be the one thing that makes her entire day.
Just tell her. âĽď¸
ÂŠď¸ Mehr Lee
Raise Her Wild