
04/04/2022
What blowing up a beach ball can teach you about breaking free of the toxic relationship cycle 👇🏻
When my partner and I were taking Brooke to the beach last week I was in charge of blowing up the beach ball…. By mouth. 😮💨😮💨
In the beginning, it looked like blowing it up on my own was impossible.
I started blowing as hard as I could and not seeing any sign that it was inflating 🙄
I thought to myself “can I even blow this thing up? Like should I even bother trying?” “This is never going to work”
But to keep from having a disappointed 9 year old, I was determined to keep going. 💪🏻
I continued to blow and rest as needed
And little by little, I saw it beginning to come into its shape. 🤗
I became more hopeful that it wasn’t a lost cause!
And the more that I blew the bigger it got until it had reached its full form.
The same goes for breaking the toxic relationship cycle 🦋
In the beginning this healed version of you + your relationships seems so far away
You put in so much effort but see little improvement, if any at all 🥲
You get disappointed & your ego steps in and tells you to quit 🗣
but you’re determined to keep going because you know that all of the effort will be worth it in the end
And little by little you begin to see shifts in yourself
🦋You’re starting to notice people are responding to you differently and the new people you’re attracting totally align with you
🦋You no longer wait to be chosen and start asking yourself “do I choose them?”
🦋You recognize you’re no longer an energetic match for toxicity and you’re actually repelled by it
🦋You’re confident in who you are and what you bring to the table so settling for less isn’t an option
🦋You notice you’ve stopped chasing and looking for external sources to soothe you
🦋You stopped performing in hopes of earning love and just know you’re worthy of it as you are
🦋You feel whole and complete on your own and are no longer preoccupied with searching for love
And you look back and say holy s**t. I did it.
If you know that you’re ready to put in the work so that you can create the love you desire, id love to support you with this, shoot me a DM, let’s chat ❤️