11/06/2015
Have you had “The Conversation” yet? When it comes to end of life care, that one conversation can make all the difference. Conversation Sabbath is happening November 6th– 15th, 2015.
The Conversation Project is dedicated to helping people talk about their wishes for end-of-life care. Too many people are dying in a way they wouldn’t choose, and too many of their loved ones are left feeling bereaved, guilty, and uncertain. It’s time to transform our culture so we shift from not talking about dying to talking about it. It’s time to share the way we want to live at the end of our lives. And it’s time to communicate about the kind of care we want and don’t want for ourselves. We believe that the place for this to begin is at the kitchen table—not in the intensive care unit—with the people we love, before it’s too late. Together we can make these difficult conversations easier. We can make sure that our own wishes and those of our loved ones are expressed and respected. Too often clergy witness how avoiding these conversations can leave family members in the dark or cause arguments and strife at the bedside. This fall, Hospice of Chattanooga is inviting local clergy and congregations to teach on the vital importance of having “The Conversation” during a two-week period called “The Conversation Sabbath”. The top five things you need to know about Conversation Sabbath are:
1. Conversation Sabbath is happening November 6th– 15th, 2015.
2. The key to Conversation Sabbath is that clergy leaders will be teaching on the vital importance of having values-based conversations with loved ones about one another’s wishes for care at the end of life.
3. The Conversation Project respects theological distinctions among religious traditions and supports having end-of-life care conversations that keep within each faith’s principles. At the same time, Conversation Sabbath embraces the universality within the diversity that stems from our shared human existence: we are all mortal.
4. Some houses of worship will incorporate additional programming to support having The Conversation, such as adult education programs, senior adult group meetings, book discussion groups, or a Starter Kit workshop on using The Conversation Project’s free, downloadable guide on how to begin The Conversation.
5. Joining this effort is easy! Simply email Hospice of Chattanooga Senior Chaplain Pat Davis pat_davis@hospiceofchattanooga.org and commit your congregation to teaching about end-of-life care conversations during Conversation Sabbath. Let us know how your congregation will participate. For ideas and suggestions, go to Conversation Project Community Resource Center at www.theconversationproject.org.
Please join me in celebrating Conversation Sabbath
November 6 – 15.
Pat Davis
Senior Chaplain, Hospice of Chattanooga