07/12/2025
I wonder if you know how the world sees you. You have a special kind of determination. You make things that are incredibly hard look like a normal every day challenge.
You sure know how to walk out of a fire with nothing but a scrape on your knee. This world could learn a lot from you, and I am so grateful you are teaching three sweet boys to become strong, compassionate men.
Youâve had your share of hardship around Birth. Her first baby was born with left plastic heart syndrome. This means lots of high-level hospital time and multiple heart surgeries for the most precious boy. She walks through this with strength and has taught her son to do the same. Itâs a special thing to see.
Planning her second Birth, she knew what she wanted and how she wanted it. And she did it. A homebirth where she was completely in control and completely at peace.
This time around, from my perspective, there was less of a âplanâ and more of a⌠âIâm just going to do what I have to and hope for the bestâ. And she did it oh so well.
Labor came on fast and furious. Joined by the lovely midwife, we barely had time to set up before baby was ready to be here. Mama and dad caught their 3rd boy with a beautiful peace. There next son was in bed as a sweet witness and gramma was near. It was truly special đ¤
With a little help clearing out lungs, baby made it known he was strong and content.
At the 24 hour visit, there were some signs that transition may have been harder than he was letting on, and we decided to go in to for some observation for elevated respirations. This was a difficult decision as hospital visits for mama in regards to her babies usually mean big, hard, life and death decisions and procedures. But this visit was proof. Proof that there are care providers in our community that care deeply and do not over treat. With 24 hours observation-with babe on mamaâs chest, and wonderful attentive care from the pediatric staff, babe was released. As much as we wish these things didnât have to happen, it was truly beautiful to watch mama shed that fear. And heal a little bit from all she has gone through with such thick armor. Though a mama is always on for her children, I think she will move forward with a little less weight⌠it was another beautiful transition to witness. I am forever in awe of you and all that you are. Thank you for teaching me along the way as wellâŚ
Sweet baby Silas Duane was born May 30th @ 5:05am weighing 8 # 6oz and standing 20.5â tall. He is the sweetest boy and literally the apple of his big brothersâ eye.
I cannot describe how grateful I am to be your midwife. Thank you for another special journey đ