11/07/2021
1. Keep your body healthy to the best of your ability. Exercise every day. Go for a walk, read up on daily activities for pregnancy, purchase exercise prep for labor and delivery and follow the recommended exercises, or find another form of movement, but do something. In addition, eat nutritious foods for yourself and your baby. What we put into our bodies becomes the baseline for then health of our bodies. Include animal fats and lots of protein to grow your baby, build your blood volume, and maintain healthy function of the placenta. See a chiropractor and a pelvic floor physical therapist to make sure your pelvis/spine/pelvic floor are strong and aligned to support your baby, and to facilitate an easier delivery when the time comes. If you need recommendations, call or message me!
2. Preparing the mind may be the trickiest part of this. You need to know what your options are, and how to choose what's best for you. Start reading books on childbirth. Listen to positive birth podcasts. Take a birth class. If hypnosis isn't for you, try instead. Don't take to heart someone else's negative birth experience- remember, they are not you, and their baby is not your baby. You are choosing to understand that birth is a normal and healthy process, and women's bodies are perfectly designed for the process.
3. Choosing your birth team means learning who is most capable of supporting the type of birth you want. If you want to give birth without an epidural, you are fully capable of doing that. Ask your care provider what percentage of births they attend are unmedicated mothers. Is the percentage high enough that you trust their ability to help you? If not, find another provider. If you want to labor and/or deliver in the water (for its pain relieving and relaxing properties), ask your care provider what percentage of births they attend are waterbirths or involve labor in the water. Hire a doula. Set yourself up for success ahead of time, so you don't have to fight for what you want when you're in labor.
Lay the groundwork and then surrender. I hope you have an amazing birth experience 💓