If you’re parenting an anxious child, this book is a game-changer. Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents offers practical strategies to help kids face fears, build resilience, and move toward independence without reinforcing anxiety.
Parenting an anxious child isn’t easy, but you’re not alone, and there are tools that work.
✅ Click the link in our bio to see more resources for parents supporting anxious kids.
07/23/2025
Every day, I work with kids who are learning to manage anxiety, speak up for themselves, and feel safe in their own skin. ✨
This work means everything to me.
If you're supporting a child through tough emotions, you're doing important work too. 🌱
There are tools, resources, and community available to help.
For anxious tweens and teens, small steps and quiet encouragement often go further than cheerleading. This post breaks it down with practical tips you can try today.
This group creates a supportive space for tween/teen girls to build confidence, connect with others, and practice the skills that help social situations feel less stressful.
This 4th of July, we're reflecting on a different kind of freedom.
Freedom from social anxiety, fear of rejection, or the pressure to fit in.
07/03/2025
Learning to make friends doesn’t always come naturally especially for tweens and teens navigating social anxiety.
This blog shares timeless strategies inspired by How to Win Friends and Influence People, adapted for today’s kids. Perfect for parents, educators, and anyone supporting young people in building connection and confidence.
I recently finished reading How to Win Friends and Influence People for the fifth time. Why do I revisit this book so often? It's because the concepts it covers genuinely helps me with my clients, family and friendships. It provides valuable insights for those eager to learn about building connectio...
07/01/2025
Social anxiety doesn’t always look like fear.
In tweens and teens, it can show up as avoiding group work, skipping social events, or staying quiet even when they want to connect.
Our Social Anxiety Groups help tweens and teens practice connection in a safe and supportive setting. 👥
Confidence grows when tweens and teens feel supported, understood, and free to be themselves.
Our group sessions create that space, helping middle and high schoolers build self-trust, navigate friendships, and feel more confident in who they are.
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I'm so excited you're here for help and support! Whether you are struggling with anxiety, transitions, stress, or making and keeping friends, I am here to help you! The truth is that you are capable of handling situations better, learning new skills, and feeling connected to others around you.
…but before we go on, let me tell you a little about myself; I am a Mental Health Counselor licensed in New York State. I attended SUNY Stony Brook and received a Bachelor's degree in Psychology. Later on, I attended CUNY Queens, where I obtained my Master's degree in Counseling. I knew from the beginning of my academic career that I wanted to help people and was fascinated by how humans develop. I mainly took an interest in how twice-exceptional* individuals develop. In 2011 I started working with individuals on the Autism Spectrum at ASPIRE Center for Learning and Development, where I learned A LOT from an excellent team of psychologists, speech-language pathologists, and other professionals! Not to mention, I learned a lot from the families and individuals I counseled. I was lucky enough to work with a variety of individuals throughout the lifespan. Although I love working with clients of varying ages, I most enjoy working with children and teens who are working on social-emotional skills as well as individuals transitioning into college.
Now, I'm in private practice, doing what I love! I continue working with individuals struggling with emotional and social understanding and anxiety. I see children as young as 6 through young adulthood.
During our time together, I will have the opportunity to learn more about you; your strengths and weaknesses and how I can best help and support you. Here are a few issues that I might be able to help you with:
- Dealing with and understanding your anxiety
- Psychoeducation for parents
- Making and keeping friends
- Reading social cues
- Understanding yours and other people's emotions and perspectives
- Advocating for yourself
- Home-based living skills
- Community-based skills
I always tailor my therapeutic practice with what the client needs. For your knowledge, I use the following modalities with my clients:
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
- Exposure therapy
- Social-Emotional Learning
- Mindfulness
- Positive Psychology
- Experiential Therapy
If you have any questions or to set up an appointment, call me at 631-683-8485 or email me at monicawellsLMHC@gmail.com.
*The term twice-exceptional, refers to gifted children who have some form of disability. These children are considered exceptional both because of their giftedness (e.g., intellectual, creative, perceptual, motor, etc.) and because of their special needs (e.g., specific learning disability, neurodevelopmental disability, etc.) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twice_exceptional