07/27/2020
‘Rona days are for the birds am I right?
I vividly remember telling my friends in my moms play date group a few years back how I couldn’t IMAGINE doing life without these amazing women by my side in the trenches of motherhood together everyday supporting each other.
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Then a chronic illness and new disabling surgery kept me home for the better part of a year. I experienced profound loneliness and fought to find self-compassion and hope amidst the hard days.
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At the end of that season my 3 year old daughter was diagnosed with cancer and our family experienced another wave of trauma that felt so deep we didn’t know if we could find our life raft.
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But somehow we’ve made it—one day at a time. Sometimes one hour at a time. And here we are in the middle of a global pandemic with an immunocompromised child, after our house flooded and we are temporarily displaced from our home, and our storm continues to feel stronger and bigger ⛈.
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And YET somehow we are finding moments that feel lighter 💡. Running through sprinklers, digging in sandboxes, building legos for hours and learning new board games.
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Oh yes! For sure all the crisis and trauma are still there and very present. But those are things that we cannot control in our life right now.
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For now we are leaning in to each other, connecting through play and nurture, and sharing empathy/grace/and every drop of compassion we have to give.
🏄🏽♀️🧗🏻♀️How have YOU found ways to play recently? If this is a struggle area for you...I challenge you to pick something new and try it out.🏏🥏🎱🪀🎾