07/06/2025
Trigger warning su***de:
Requiescat in pace, Fr. Matteo.
Pray for all those who battle suicidial thoughts. Don’t be afraid to check in on your friends. 💜🩵
https://988lifeline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1B4KZdqGhy/?mibextid=wwXIfds
Tragic and awful news out of a northern Italian diocese today, of a young priest who took his own life. This is truly mysterious. And of course devastating for so many, in his own family, his presbyterate and community. Requiescat in pace, Don Matteo. May the Lord's peace find you.
I add here the reflections of Fr. Christopher Smith from upstate SC (I was forwarding his post, but it only forwarded the Italian post he had shared)
"Pray for the repose of the soul of Fr Matteo Bolzano, a young Italian priest who took his own life this weekend. While I am the first to say that priests need to be very careful how they speak to people because of the impact they have on others, there is another side that we never talk about. The mental health of our clergy is extremely important. Self-care, priestly fraternity, physical and emotional well-being for a priest should no longer be considered an option. Some of my brother priests labor every single day under emotional conditions that would cause most men to off themselves if they had to deal with what some of our priests deal with. Nasty behavior, gossip, loneliness, being misunderstood, unrealistic expectations, feeling failure, superiors acting poorly, burnout: they’re all a part of everyone’s life in some way. But for a priest, they can be unusually crippling and demoralising.
When I was a younger priest, I was shocked when brothers left ministry, had crises of faith or committed su***de. No longer. May God have mercy on this priest, on all priests and renew our vocation to image Christ.
Jesus, fac ut simus sacerdotes secundum Cor tuum!
And no, this is not a cry for help: I’m living my best life, and am hard-headed enough to keep moving forward. But this had made me reflect." [h/t Christopher Smith ]