Veterans Mental Health Council

Veterans Mental Health Council Veterans and families empowering each other through advocacy, education, and support. We're here to advocate and improve services for all.

Meetings are held virtually via Zoom on the second Tuesday of the month at 6:00pm. To participate, contact us at info@veteransmentalheathcouncil.org, and we will send you the link. We welcome Veterans and family members utilizing VA behavioral health services to join our council. For inquiries or to share your concerns, please email us at info@veteransmentalhealthcouncil.org.

Healthy boundaries aren’t harsh. They’re protective.For veterans, spouses, and families, boundaries are often the differ...
03/19/2026

Healthy boundaries aren’t harsh. They’re protective.

For veterans, spouses, and families, boundaries are often the difference between burnout and stability—between reacting and responding.

A few reminders from this graphic:

✅ Say “no” without guilt
✅ Communicate what you need (clear > hinted)
✅ Accept when others set boundaries
✅ Be careful with oversharing (trust is earned)
✅ Don’t people-please out of fear
✅ Reflect on your intentions (am I doing this to avoid conflict?)
✅ Know your worth
✅ Your opinions matter
✅ Agree to disagree is allowed

Boundaries don’t push good people away.
They protect the relationships worth keeping.

➡️ Want support and community that understands military life? Visit Veterans Mental Health Council: https://veteransmentalhealthcouncil.org/

When stress is high, this reset helps fast:OUT OF MY CONTROL:⛔ the past • other people’s reactions • outcomes • timing •...
03/19/2026

When stress is high, this reset helps fast:

OUT OF MY CONTROL:
⛔ the past • other people’s reactions • outcomes • timing • opinions • what others choose to believe

IN MY CONTROL:
✅ my attitude + energy
✅ my boundaries
✅ my next step
✅ how I communicate
✅ the people I surround myself with
✅ how I show up under pressure

For veterans (and the spouses/families beside them), life can feel unpredictable. But getting grounded in what you can control is how you get momentum back—one decision at a time.

Comment below: What’s one thing you can control today?

➡️ Join the community: https://veteransmentalhealthcouncil.org/

03/15/2026

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Military Sexual Trauma is something many veterans carry quietly.When I was a young soldier, my squad leader abused his p...
03/13/2026

Military Sexual Trauma is something many veterans carry quietly.

When I was a young soldier, my squad leader abused his power and sexually abused me. It was devastating. I grew up in a time when the message many women heard was that r**e was somehow the woman’s fault. Because of that belief, I never reported it. The abuse didn’t stop until he transferred out of the unit.

For a long time I carried that pain in silence.

But something inside me also hardened into determination. I made a decision that I would never allow someone to take my voice again. I became a stronger soldier. Stronger, louder, more determined. Eventually that strength became what many people know as my “drill sergeant voice”—loud, strong, and unapologetically proud. I refused to remain only a survivor. I chose to become a thriver.

Here are the hard facts that many people still struggle to hear:
• 1 in 3 women who serve experience sexual abuse.
• 1 in 5 men who serve experience sexual abuse.

Those numbers are uncomfortable. But ignoring them doesn’t make them disappear.

Until we start talking about Military Sexual Trauma openly, we will never truly know the battles the person standing next to us is fighting. Someone around us may desperately need a listening ear, a moment of understanding, or simply the space to say, “This happened to me.”

When we make conversations about sexual abuse more normal, we create room for healing. We create room for people to be heard. And sometimes, that simple act of listening can help someone move from surviving… to thriving.

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Support isn’t weakness. It’s strategy.A lot of veterans were trained to push through, handle it alone, and “be fine.” Bu...
03/11/2026

Support isn’t weakness. It’s strategy.

A lot of veterans were trained to push through, handle it alone, and “be fine.” But isolation doesn’t make you stronger—it just makes the load heavier.

And here’s another myth to bust: therapy isn’t the only form of support. For many veterans and families, real support looks like a stack of practical, repeatable things:

What support actually looks like:
✅ Peer connection — people who get it, no explaining required
✅ Routines — small daily structure that stabilizes your nervous system
✅ Boundaries — protecting your time, energy, and relationships
✅ Sleep — recovery isn’t optional; it’s fuel
✅ Purpose — mission after the mission, something that matters again

Support can be a conversation. A group. A plan. A community.
You don’t have to “earn” help by falling apart first.

➡️ Get connected: https://veteransmentalhealthcouncil.org/

Morning check-in for veterans, spouses, and families:You don’t have to wake up ready to conquer the world.Sometimes the ...
03/08/2026

Morning check-in for veterans, spouses, and families:

You don’t have to wake up ready to conquer the world.
Sometimes the win is starting the day with a steadier mind and a calmer nervous system.

Try one of these affirmations today (say it out loud if you can):
• My peace is my priority.
• I let go of self-doubt and fear.
• I release the need to rush.
• I release the pressure to have it all figured out.
• I move at my own pace.
• What is meant for me will not miss me.
• I am exactly where I need to be.
• I am worthy of love, joy, and success.

Pick one and carry it with you through the day.

➡️ For veteran-focused support, tools, and community, visit Veterans Mental Health Council: https://veteransmentalhealthcouncil.org/

Burnout doesn’t always look like collapsing.Sometimes it looks like: • being irritable over small things • feeling numb ...
03/04/2026

Burnout doesn’t always look like collapsing.

Sometimes it looks like:
• being irritable over small things
• feeling numb (not sad—just flat)
• withdrawing from people you care about
• sleep getting worse (or never feeling rested)
• living on caffeine + willpower
• doom-scrolling or staying constantly distracted
• losing motivation for things that used to matter
• your body feeling tired, tense, or on edge all the time

If that’s you (or someone you love), hear this: you’re not weak. you’re overloaded.

Try a “battery recharge” today—pick one:
✅ 10–20 minutes outside
✅ a short walk + water
✅ 5 minutes of slow breathing (in 4, out 6)
✅ one boundary: “Not today” / “I can’t take that on”
✅ text a safe person: “I’m not doing great—can we talk?”

Small steps count. Consistency builds your capacity back.

➡️ For veteran-focused support, resources, and community, visit Veterans Mental Health Council: https://veteransmentalhealthcouncil.org/

Burnout isn’t a character flaw. It’s a capacity issue—and a lot of veterans (and the spouses/families beside them) have ...
03/03/2026

Burnout isn’t a character flaw. It’s a capacity issue—and a lot of veterans (and the spouses/families beside them) have been carrying too much for too long.

Here are 10 practical ways to combat burnout (pick 1–2 and start there):
1. Lower the load: remove one non-essential task this week
2. Set one boundary: a clear “no” is a mental health skill
3. Get outside daily: 10–20 minutes of sunlight + movement
4. Move your body: walk, lift, stretch—anything counts
5. Protect sleep: consistent bedtime, less screen time, same wake-up
6. Fuel + hydrate: don’t run on caffeine and fumes
7. Micro-recovery breaks: 5 minutes of quiet between stressors
8. Connect with a safe person: isolation accelerates burnout
9. Name what you feel: stress gets louder when it stays unnamed
10. Ask for support early: don’t wait until you hit the wall

If burnout has been living in your body, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to white-knuckle it.

➡️ Connect with veteran-focused support and community at Veterans Mental Health Council: https://veteransmentalhealthcouncil.org/

Your self-care has a battery life—and a lot of veterans (and the spouses/families beside them) have been running on low ...
02/27/2026

Your self-care has a battery life—and a lot of veterans (and the spouses/families beside them) have been running on low power for a long time.

Here’s a simple check-in:

Drains your battery:
• overcommitting
• people-pleasing
• chronic work stress
• perfectionism
• poor sleep

Recharges your battery:
• setting boundaries
• asking for support
• quality time with loved ones
• time in nature

If you’re feeling short-tempered, numb, exhausted, or “off”… it might not be weakness.
It might be a low battery warning.

Today’s challenge: pick one recharger and do it on purpose.

➡️ For veteran-focused support, tools, and community, visit Veterans Mental Health Council: https://veteransmentalhealthcouncil.org/

Anxiety is loud — and it loves the worst-case scenario.For a lot of veterans (and the spouses/families beside them), anx...
02/26/2026

Anxiety is loud — and it loves the worst-case scenario.

For a lot of veterans (and the spouses/families beside them), anxiety can feel like:
• constant threat-scanning
• “something bad is about to happen”
• replaying every mistake
• planning for every disaster

But here’s a grounding truth: anxiety is not a prophecy. It’s your nervous system trying to keep you safe — sometimes by lying about the odds.

Try this quick reset when anxiety spikes:
✅ Name it: “This is anxiety, not reality.”
✅ Breathe: 4 seconds in, 6 seconds out (x5)
✅ Ask: “What do I know is true right now?”
✅ Take one small action in your control (water, walk, text a friend)

You don’t have to white-knuckle this alone.

➡️ Get veteran-focused support and community at Veterans Mental Health Council: https://veteransmentalhealthcouncil.org/

02/25/2026

As new week begins, remember that rest is productive, too.

A rough patch does not erase your progress.For veterans, spouses, and families, healing and growth are rarely a straight...
02/25/2026

A rough patch does not erase your progress.

For veterans, spouses, and families, healing and growth are rarely a straight line. There will be hard days, setbacks, triggers, and moments where it feels like you’re slipping.

That does not mean you’re back at the beginning.

It means you’re human.
And what counts is this: you get back up.
You reach out. You reset. You keep going.

Progress isn’t measured by never stumbling.
It’s measured by what you do next.

If you’re in a rough patch right now, you’re not alone—and support is available.
➡️ Connect with veteran-focused support and community at Veterans Mental Health Council: https://veteransmentalhealthcouncil.org/

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