04/24/2026
I went to visit a client who was struggling in the hospital one day. It was just her and me. She had gotten a new health plan, and it was moving forward quickly.
I asked her if we could pause and talk frankly. I told her I didn't think this plan was in line with what we had talked about that day in the ER.
I needed to know she understood the plan, and if that was her choice, I supported her. I also needed her to know if she needed help telling people she wasn't on board with this plan, I would lead the charge.
She said, "This isn't what I want. I am done fighting. I just want to close my eyes and rest."
She gave me permission to tell the health team and her family what she really wanted.
I had the hard, tearful conversations with her family. I kept pushing when her health team had objections or used words like "giving up."
With the help of the team at Navigate Wellness and hospice, she was able to go home. There, she was able to have visitors, reminisce, be spoiled, and focus on her comfort.
- Janie