09/11/2025
I’m asked, almost on a daily basis, “How do you do this all of the time?” Or “I could never do this.”
My answer remains the same. I tell them that it is truly an honor to be able to help them navigate through what is arguably one of the hardest time of their lives. That this is a God given calling of mine. That I know if I have these conversations, they’re done with kindness, compassion and empathy.
Personally, I’m able to compartmentalize and keeping this mindset is what keeps my mental health intact.
But then…there are some patients. Those in healthcare probably have their own story of a patient. The one that breaks through every wall or shield and absolutely obliterates your heart and soul.
This family was mine.
A beautiful life ending far too soon, leaving behind a wonderful family including a young son. As I’m around the same age and a son of an age close to mine, this was one I just couldn’t put into a box to protect my heart.
So, my coping mechanism? To spoil them endlessly.
1. This word cloud (which most who have been following know it’s one of my favorite things to do)
2. Fingerprint hearts and heartbeats in a bottle. I was able to make special canvases with her fingerprints and those of her children.
3. Build a bear heartbeat bear for her youngest
4. Purple was her favorite, so we got her a purple blanket and silk bonnet
All of this and it still didn’t seem enough. Many tears were shed, including my own. While I considered it borderline unprofessional, they told me that it made me a human and shared their appreciate for that.
I squeezed my boys tight when I got home late that night. This is one that will stick with me forever. A precious memory but also as a reminder as to why this Project exists. ❤️❤️❤️