05/28/2025
That âgreener grassâ you see, just out of reach, over there, that âbetterâ thing you could have chosen (but didnât) - thatâs a conceptual illusion generated by FOMO. Please donât buy into it! Donât fall for it! Subscribing to the notion that your ideal situation is always in sight - but just out of reach - is not only demoralising and frustrating but it saps your ability to have faith in yourself, and remember that YOU are the agent of change in your own life.
That greener grass doesnât generally just âhappenâ; it grows under the feet of people who are willing and able to notice and utilise everything they have going for them in any given situation, no matter how bleak. These people do not allow set backs and disadvantages to cut them off from noticing things to be grateful for, reasons to be hopeful, resources they already have (no matter how small,) and opportunities to grow.
The grass is greener wherever you are!!
You donât have to agonise over trying not to make the âwrong decisionâ - I mean choose thoughtfully, sure. But you canât always avoid unexpected, suboptimal outcomes. Donât let fear paralyse you!
Trust yourself!
And anyway, itâs not about not ever making mistakes itâs about developing the capacity to LEARN from your errors:
What drove me to do that?
Why did I not factor in X?
How could I have said/or done that differently?
What beliefs caused me to see things this way?
Why did I not realise Y when it now seems obvious?
What would I do differently in future?
Your mistakes will FERTILISE the ground on which you stand - lush, green grass CAN be something you just wander onto by chance or luck - but normally it isnât. Greener grass can also be a state of mind, something you cultivate.
Either way though, YOU are the only person who can bring lasting, positive change to your life, and so wherever you go, THATâs where your best opportunities are.
Say it with me!!
âThe grass is greener wherever I am.â
If youâd like to find out about how to grow your very own greenest grass right where you stand now, Iâd love to find out if I might be the right person to support you to do that! Why not book your free chat with me using the link in the comments?
Art: As Above Astro