Shades Oasis

12/13/2025

WE ARE CLOSED!!

Hey there party people, we have made the decision to close for this evening for all of our safety.

With the temperature drop and the slushiness it'll be a sleigh ride home. We are going to reschedule this event for December the 27th at 7:00 p.m.

Your tickets will just roll over so there's nothing that you need to do but stay in and stay safe! See you soon.

12/02/2025

Consider today.

Harmony Bridge is a trauma-informed, holistic care organization supporting individuals who face barriers to experiencing healthy, empowered pleasure following personal violations, coercive intimacy, restrictive upbringings, or generational stigma around sexuality.

Our mission is to guide survivors in reclaiming consent, body autonomy, and pleasure with purpose. Through somatic education, therapeutic programming, and culturally responsive care, we help clients move beyond trauma into embodied healing.

We believe the body holds both the burden and the brilliance of recovery. By honoring the body’s natural healing processes—including the restorative neurochemistry of arousal—we create a path for individuals to reconnect with themselves and others in ways that are safe, intentional, and life-affirming.

11/24/2025

11/10/2025

This week at Shades Oasis...Pleasure. Curiosity. Connection.

MUMMIFICATION CLASS-THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 14th, 7p-12a $20
No Membership required.

SWAP & SHOP SOCIAL SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 16TH 1P-5P-
Free for Members- Member can stay after until 9pm.
$10 for Non Members.

Active Members https://my.rhinofit.ca/

New Membership and Tickets https://my.rhinofit.ca/store/index/43f8de67

Non Members Tickets https://www.eventbrite.com/o/shades-oasis-43385717903

10/14/2025

Shhh… there’s something amazing coming in November.
But those who wait might just miss the real magic.

October at Shades Oasis is already alive — soft shadows, warm laughter, and that quiet spark of connection that makes every night feel like a secret worth keeping.

Something’s stirring beneath the surface… listen closely — the whispers will lead you home.

10/02/2025

The countdown is on! Next week kicks off the National Sexual Health Conference, and I’ll be leading a roundtable you don’t want to miss:

Pleasure Education and Exposure Transformation (PEET): A Paradigm Shift in Sexual Health and Sexual Trauma Recovery
Monday, Oct 6th | 4:10–4:55 PM EDT

It’s not too late—registration is still open for this 3-day online conference.

Grab your ticket now at sexualhealthconference.org

09/25/2025

Just a quick note to let you know that we’ll be closed this week. We’ll miss seeing you, but we’re excited to welcome you back next week for some amazing events:

Aphrodisia – Thursday, October 3
Role Play 102 – Friday, October 4

Mark your calendars—we can’t wait to see you there!

Thank you for being part of our community, and we’ll see you soon.

Send a message to learn more

09/15/2025

You're missing more than just fun when you skip Little's Night.
Soft laughter, cozy vibes, and the sweetest connections happen every month when we gather in our safe, all inclusive judgment-free space.

Think plushies, pastels, and pure comfort.
Story time, coloring pages, and someone to remind you it’s okay to let go—and just be.

Whether you're a Little, a caregiver, or just curious… this is your gentle invitation to slow down, breathe, and embrace your softer side.

09/03/2025

This Week at Oasis (Sept 4–6)

Join us for three powerful nights of connection + education:
Self-Compassion in Kink (Fri 9/5)
Aphrodisia – Celebrate Aphrodite (Fri 9/5)
Art of Domination: Fe**sh Role Play 101 (Sat 9/6)

Workshops start at 8PM, doors close at 9PM.

Plus: Lunch Break Online Workshop on Intimacy & Pleasure Education.

Reserve your spot today!! https://my.rhinofit.ca/store/index/43f8de67
**shEducation Shades Oasis Mis Sara Rae
Debra Shade Clinical Sexologist and Master Sexpert Eventbrite