07/02/2025
Spoiler alert: Your softness is your superpower. Not your hustle. âš
As a breath guide and healer, I hold space for others to come home to themselves every day.
I help women soften, feel, release, and reconnect.
But lately?
I wasnât checking in on me.
I was giving.
Pouring.
Guiding.
HoldingâŠ
And completely bypassing the space I so deeply needed for myself.
This photo was taken after a breathwork sessionânot one I led, but one I finally gave myself permission to receive.
And it undid me.
Not in a dramatic breakdown kind of way,
But in the softest, most honest unraveling I didnât know Iâd been craving.
I sobbed.
Because I realized how out of balance I was.
How Iâd been holding everyone else while quietly abandoning myself.
In that moment of stillness and breath, I finally felt the part of me that had been whispering,
âI need care, too.â
And there she wasâmy softness.
Not my weakness, but my truth.
The part of me that doesnât lead from burnout.
That doesnât confuse being needed with being whole.
The part of me that is powerful because she rests, receives, and feels.
âš Hustle didnât heal me.
My softness did.
If youâre someone who helps othersâŠ
Who holds space, keeps it all together, stays strong for everyone elseâŠ
Please hear this:
You donât have to earn your rest.
You donât have to be the strong one 24/7.
You get to need what you give.
đŹ Drop a đ«¶ if youâve been carrying more than you realized.
Or tag a fellow space-holder who needs to be held, too.
Your softness is sacred.
Let it rise.