
07/20/2025
New on the Second Spring Chronicle:
"I didn’t get to attend my maternal grandmother’s funeral. The kids were just too little at the time, and it didn’t feel right to leave them for that long. My family understood, and they never pressured me to make the long trip home.
So, I grieved quietly from the other side of the world—remembering how steady she had always been for me. How much I’d miss her presence. How deeply I wished she could’ve watched my children grow.
When I finally went home months later, I got to grieve with my mom. We cried. We laughed. We shared stories that brought her back to life, even just for a little while. I mostly remember what my mom said that has stayed with me ever since:
“Remember—she’s in you, and will be, forever.”
I didn’t fully grasp what she meant at the time. But as I’ve lived through more life—and more loss—those words have started to land."
More here: https://kityoon.substack.com/p/forgive-me