11/08/2025
Rose, Thorn & Bud — Supporting Communication Without Questioning
In speech-language therapy, we talk a lot about the power of declarative language instead of constant questioning.
Why?
Because many learners — children and adults — communicate more successfully when we model language, share our own thoughts, and invite connection, rather than quiz them.
Lately I’ve been using a simple conversational routine with my adult clients (inspired by my own grown kids!) that has made a BIG impact:
✨ Rose — the best part of your week
🍂 Thorn — the hardest part of your week
🌱 Bud — something you’re looking forward to
Instead of asking, I might say:
“My rose was taking a walk by the ocean.
My thorn was rushing this morning — whew!
My bud is enjoying a cozy dinner tonight.”
Then I pause, smile, and wait.
No pressure.
No rapid-fire questions.
Just an open space for communication to grow 🌱
When we model, we give the brain language tools.
When we share, we strengthen connection.
When we offer structure, we build confidence.
And slowly… we see blooms. 🌸
Try it with the communicators in your world — of any age.
Communication isn’t a test — it’s a relationship.
Let’s nurture it. 💫