01/10/2026
You know that person who traumatically hurts you, then ghost-apologizes (if at all), then smugly acts like “time heals all wounds” ... only to be baffled when you decide you’re done waiting for them to show up? Yeah. Me too.
Here’s the thing: time doesn’t heal everything ... it just gives you space to decide what you’ll do with the pain. And sometimes your decision is: “Nope. I’m not babysitting your remorse.”
Tip: Boundaries aren’t mean ... they’re emotional hygiene. If someone repeatedly hurts you without owning it, you don’t need to stick around for their guilt.
(Yes, I said “guilt.” Because healing isn’t about them, it’s about you reclaiming your energy.)