The Booby Fairy : Danielle Gauss, IBCLC

03/04/2026

When it comes to posterior tongue ties, the function of the muscle is the goal. This 2 day old newborn was compensating with his jaw to lift his tongue which was super painful for mom. Babies are like batteries in the sense that they need time to recharge their energy level before moving forward with any intervention. Having a tie savy support team of an IBCLC, OT, PT, SLP or Chiropractor can make a significant difference in the outcome. Time can be a gift. No need to rush it. Instead listen to your instincts

02/28/2026

I have experienced a lot of loss in my life of close family, both siblings, grandparents, friends, but what is interesting is when someone who was super close to my heart passes (my sister Cara, my uncle Craig, my Mutti, and now my grandma who was like my mother) each time a sunflower pops up over night, and always a week after they pass, and usually in winter when it should not be able to grow. It’s as if God provides a tangible gift to show they are safe in the arms of Jesus. I see them in butterflies and sunflowers. 🌻 Sometimes as we grieve the loss of a loved one, a “God Wink” transpires to show me love. Thank you grandma. I love and miss you so so so much!

02/06/2026

It is B***y Fairy Friday! Question of the week is Should I size up my bottle flow based on the age of the baby…answer is No! Total marketing gimmick! Your ni**le does not change flow with age of the baby and neither should the bottle, Especially for tongue tied babies. We need them to work with their muscles and strengthen to the best of the function! If unsure reach out we can help guide you!

02/05/2026

Breastfeeding twins can seem like a daunting challenge. Sooooo many questions! “Will I have enough milk?” “Will I feel touched out?” “How do I keep up?” And so on … The goal is tandem feeding, but it takes time, patience, and a TON of grace for yourself! Breastfeeding is hard enough, then add another kiddo to boot it can seem so very overwhelming! That’s where an IBCLC can help guide you! Here are some possible ways to latch your little ones. Probably one of my favorite things twins do, is once one latches the other twin often will lock eyes and they compete for the food. The first sibling rivalry of who is the better eater. But together they learn, and your supply builds and before you know it , you are breastfeeding two babies at the same time!!! Because you my friend, are a badass rockstar of a mom capable of great success! And when you need help, I am always a message away

02/04/2026

Listen, sometimes life throws you some MASSIVE curve balls and tests your patience, your integrity, your intellect, and you just want to throw in the towel and say….well say exactly what my mug is saying here. When life gets you down, flip it on its side, give it a little kick in the a$$ and keep going! Remember to laugh at the little things . Sometimes laughter is all we got. That and Jesus cause He is the coolest…just saying

01/23/2026

Why is the second time around different? When you put in the work to heal past trauma, get in touch with who you are as a person, and take time to listen to your inner peace you learn how to pay attention to the natural instincts. Trust your gut, it will never be wrong!

01/16/2026

My vet tech daughter asking the human med gal to explain certain abbreviation…ADR???

12/28/2025

This is one of the more frequent questions I get asked, and it’s so valid! It doesn’t seem to make sense as to how a newborn bay can carry so much tension. They are brand new! BUT you would’ve surprised how often the birth story, digestive system, oral tethering can cause the body to tense up! Not to mention babies are growing at a rapid pace! So if there is any tethering ( tongue ties are connected all the way to the toes) a collagenous fiber it’s like pulling a string in a snagged sweater. One side will become tight or off. Then throw is a swaddle that pins arms to the side for long periods of time or worse a baby in the snoo and that tension ca become worse! If the baby has reflux or colic (if you had ever had heartburn you get it) can cause tensions throughout the body. So important to listen to your baby’s cues and get bodywork done to help.

12/19/2025

A day in the life of a traveling IBCLC!! Being back doing this work has been so rewarding. I’m so grateful for all you allow me to be a part of your journey!

12/06/2025

When your daughter stays up with the latest TikTok trends and creates a fun collage! When you love what you do it never feels like work.

12/03/2025

The hips don’t lie! This fussy little man was not having it. So we put him close to momma, and used a little acupressure massage to instantly calm him. And just like that this sweet guy was fast asleep!! Sometimes all it takes is listening to the body, finding the tension, and moving with the baby to help calm an overstimulated nervous system

11/22/2025

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I’m An IBCLC Lactation Consultant, Aka “The B***y Fairy”, Published Author. Married For 25yrs, Mother Of 2 Adult Daughters, Business Owner.