02/10/2025
Susan Sarandon and David Bowie’s paths crossed in the early 1980s while working on "The Hunger" (1983), a visually arresting horror film directed by Tony Scott. The movie featured Sarandon as a scientist and Bowie as a centuries-old vampire caught in a desperate struggle against time. Their characters shared an intimate connection, and behind the scenes, the two stars found themselves irresistibly drawn to each other. Bowie’s enigmatic aura and profound intellect fascinated Sarandon, while she captivated him with her fierce independence and quick wit. Their secret romance, unknown to the public for decades, was an intense but fleeting chapter in both their lives.
At the time, Sarandon had recently ended a long-term relationship with filmmaker Louis Malle, and she was not looking for anything serious. Bowie, on the other hand, was already a global icon, known for his ever-evolving artistry and magnetic presence. What made their connection remarkable was not just their physical attraction but their shared curiosity about life. They bonded over existential conversations, literature, music, and philosophy. Bowie, with his insatiable intellect, introduced Sarandon to new ideas and perspectives, while she admired his ability to reinvent himself constantly. Their time together was marked by deep conversations and a mutual appreciation for artistic expression.
Though their affair remained private for years, Sarandon later acknowledged how extraordinary Bowie was, describing him as “a really interesting person” with a brilliant mind. She recalled how he encouraged her to explore new creative avenues and challenged her in ways few others had. Their relationship, however, was destined to be short-lived. Sarandon was clear about her decision not to have more children at that stage in her life. Bowie, who had a son from his first marriage and would later have a daughter with his second wife, Iman, respected her stance. This difference in life goals ultimately led to their amicable separation.
Despite their romance ending, the two remained close friends. Bowie’s ability to remain connected with past lovers and maintain friendships was well-known, and Sarandon was no exception. They continued to admire each other from afar, occasionally crossing paths over the years. Sarandon later revealed that Bowie had a lasting impact on her, calling him "extraordinary" not just as an artist but as a human being. His influence lingered long after their relationship ended.
In the final days of Bowie’s life, Sarandon had the opportunity to reconnect with him. She was one of the few who knew about his illness before the public did. When he passed away in 2016, she expressed her grief, speaking of how unique and irreplaceable he was. For Sarandon, their time together was brief but transformative, leaving her with memories of a man whose mind, charm, and spirit remained unmatched.
