05/13/2026
You don’t need to have all the answers.
Whether you’re a therapist, parent, teacher, or support person, it can be easy to feel pressure to “get it right” straight away.
But often, the most effective starting point is also the simplest:
“Can you tell me what helps for you?”
It shifts the focus from assumptions to collaboration, and makes space for the person’s own insight, preferences, and lived experience to lead the way.
Support doesn’t have to be perfect.
It just has to be open, respectful, and willing to listen.
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