Choosing You Counselling & Psychotherapy

Choosing You Counselling & Psychotherapy Choosing You offers individual counselling & psychotherapy to individuals in Ontario, Canada.

Recovery can vary greatly from person to person and depend on circumstances and the severity level that you’re at. Creat...
07/23/2025

Recovery can vary greatly from person to person and depend on circumstances and the severity level that you’re at. Creating a plan will serve you well in maintaining your well-being and increasing your awareness of your stressors to better manage them.
You can read more on our blog: https://choosingyou.ca/burnout-symptoms-and-recovery/

Burnout doesn't only take place in several areas of your life but can also stem from various sources. Read more about fa...
07/16/2025

Burnout doesn't only take place in several areas of your life but can also stem from various sources. Read more about factors that can increase your risk to burnout on our blog!

https://choosingyou.ca/blog/

Although stress and burnout can often resemble each other, there are key differences between the two (this is not a comp...
07/09/2025

Although stress and burnout can often resemble each other, there are key differences between the two (this is not a comprehensive list - check out our blog for more!)

https://choosingyou.ca/blog/

Signs/Symptoms of burnout-Worry at night, or trouble falling or staying asleep-Feeling unappreciated or “used” on the jo...
07/02/2025

Signs/Symptoms of burnout
-Worry at night, or trouble falling or staying asleep
-Feeling unappreciated or “used” on the job
-Tired/Fatigued even after getting enough sleep
-Brain fog
-Feeling angry, irritated, annoyed, or disappointed with those around you
-Connecting with friends or family less often
-Increased forgetfulness e.g. appointments, deadlines, placement of items
-Avoiding conversations or isolating from others
-Increased substance use
-Difficulty to find joy or pleasure in hobbies
-Unable to filter negative attitudes or thoughts
-Lack of joy or meaning in your job
-Increased conflict with others
-Often wanting to take time off work or always watching the clock
-Increased physical complaints e.g. headaches, stomach issues, colds

Though many of the above imply career related symptoms, keep in mind that burnout can happen in other areas of life too e.g. caregiving.

A chronic state developed over time of mental, physical and emotional exhaustion resulting from prolonged and unmanaged ...
06/25/2025

A chronic state developed over time of mental, physical and emotional exhaustion resulting from prolonged and unmanaged stress. Find out more on signs, symptoms, and coping on our blog today!
https://choosingyou.ca/blog/

EMDR therapy can be an intense experience. What you do after a session is an important part of the experience to allow b...
06/18/2025

EMDR therapy can be an intense experience. What you do after a session is an important part of the experience to allow both physical and emotional processing! What are your favorite self-care activities after a session?

Happy Father's day! We're thinking of you and sending love to all:- The should-be fathers- Those with strained father re...
06/15/2025

Happy Father's day! We're thinking of you and sending love to all:

- The should-be fathers
- Those with strained father relationships
- Biological fathers
- Those who have lost their father
- Single father's
- Expectant fathers
- Grandfathers
- Stepfathers
- Foster dads
- Adoptive dads
- Fathers with strained children relationships
- Grieving fathers
- Spiritual fathers
- Furbaby fathers
- Those who have never had a father

🖐️Meet Kendra🖐️I'm a trained EMDR therapist, a Certified Grief Counselling Specialist and Certified Grief Educator. I wo...
06/11/2025

🖐️Meet Kendra🖐️

I'm a trained EMDR therapist, a Certified Grief Counselling Specialist and Certified Grief Educator. I work primarily with individuals experiencing burnout, grief, anxiety, and/or trauma. I also have special interest working with undergraduate students, medical students and healthcare professionals.

EMDR aims to aid clients in transforming negative life experiences into adaptive experiences. In addition, it helps clie...
06/04/2025

EMDR aims to aid clients in transforming negative life experiences into adaptive experiences. In addition, it helps clients learn from the past, desensitize present triggers, reprocess and store memories in a way that eliminates distress. Thus, improving resilience for future challenges.

The 8 Phases of EMDR include:
1.History: The therapist gather’s information about client’s history, develops therapeutic trust; treatment plan and goals are planned.
2.Preparation: Therapist provides education on EMDR theory, the process and effects, types of bilateral stimulation, emotion regulation tools, ensures stable life environment, and resource development.
3.Assessment: For each memory an image, negative cognition, positive cognition, validity of cognition, emotions, distress unit, and bodily sensations are assessed.
4.Desensitization: while the memory is kept in mind, sets of bilateral stimulation are administered. The therapist will check-in on your observations after each set.
5.Installation: Assessing the fit of the pre-determined positive cognition and strengthening with more sets of bilateral stimulation.
6.Body Scan: Identifying any residual physical sensations. Processing is only complete when the body feels it is clear of negative sensations associated with the memory.
7.Closure: returning to a state of emotional equilibrium by the end of each session, regardless of if the reprocessing is complete for that memory. Preparing client expectations for in between sessions.
8.Re-evaluation: assessment at the beginning of each new session to determine if progress has been maintained and determine if further reprocessing is needed.

Learn more about it's origins, theory, treatment uses, and what an EMDR protocol might look like in sessions! Find our b...
05/28/2025

Learn more about it's origins, theory, treatment uses, and what an EMDR protocol might look like in sessions! Find our blog on our website:
https://choosingyou.ca/blog/

4 tools to help break the cycle of perfectionism:1. Awareness Building – In order to make change, it’s important to be a...
05/21/2025

4 tools to help break the cycle of perfectionism:

1. Awareness Building – In order to make change, it’s important to be able to well recognize what you’d like to change. Journaling daily can help you increase mindfulness around thoughts, emotions, behaviours or themes that reinforce perfectionism.
2. Realistic Thinking – You’ve most likely had these thought tendencies for quite some time. Thus, your desired change won’t happen overnight. Set reasonable and realistic goals for yourself. Start small to build up motivation and confidence.
3. Exposure Practice - Activity: create a painting or drawing with the intention of it being awful. Notice what comes up for you or try to focus on enjoying the creative process.
4. Self-Compassion – Allow yourself to make mistakes and alter negative self-talk.

These are just some examples of how perfectionism can affect us!
05/14/2025

These are just some examples of how perfectionism can affect us!

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