Loudermilk life coaching

04/15/2025

You are the key.
Life is the car.
Without you, it doesn’t move forward.
It sits idle—full of potential, power, and promise—but going nowhere.

You see, the key doesn’t question whether it fits.
It was made to turn the ignition.
To unlock movement, to awaken something greater than itself.
Just like you.

Every time you doubt yourself, remember: the car of your life cannot start without your permission.
You hold the power to move it forward, shift gears, change direction, or even hit the brakes when necessary.
And yes—sometimes the road is unknown, and the destination unclear.
But that’s where faith steps in as your GPS, guiding even when you can’t see the map.

Don’t wait for someone else to turn your ignition.
Don’t give your key to someone who doesn’t know how to drive your vision.
You weren’t created to sit in park.
You were built for motion—for growth, for impact, for the open road of possibility.

So today, insert yourself into your purpose.
Turn.
Ignite.
Drive.
Because the world doesn’t need another parked soul with a full tank.
It needs you—in motion, with intention, leaving purpose in your tracks.

11/05/2024

Spiritual Awakening Understanding that We are God - A deeper Dive

Spiritual Awakening Understanding that We are God - A deeper Dive

06/23/2024

Understanding how hate spreads

Spreading hate about one thing opens the door to all hate because it normalizes negative attitudes and behaviors that can easily extend to other targets. Here's a more detailed explanation:

1. Normalization of Hate: When hate speech or actions against one group or idea become accepted or common, it lowers the social barrier for expressing hate in general. People may begin to see hateful behavior as more acceptable, making it easier to target other groups or ideas.

2. Erosion of Empathy: Fostering hate against one entity diminishes empathy and compassion. Once people become desensitized to the suffering or degradation of one group, they are more likely to disregard the humanity of other groups as well.

3. Cultural Shift: A culture that tolerates hate against one group can create an environment where hate becomes a part of the cultural fabric. This shift can lead to the generalization of hateful attitudes towards others, as the cultural narrative evolves to be more inclusive of hate.

4. Expansion of Targets: Hate is rarely contained. The justifications used to hate one group (e.g., stereotypes, misinformation) can be repurposed to target others. This can lead to a broader and more indiscriminate spread of hate.

5. Interconnected Prejudices: Prejudices are often interconnected. For example, someone who harbors racist views may also hold sexist, homophobic, or xenophobic views. Spreading hate in one area can reinforce and validate other prejudices.

6. Social Contagion: Hate can spread through social networks and communities. When people witness or engage in hate against one group, they may be influenced to adopt similar attitudes towards other groups. This social contagion effect can lead to a broader acceptance of hateful attitudes.

7. Escalation of Conflict: Initial expressions of hate can lead to retaliation, creating a cycle of escalating conflict that involves more groups and more intense hatred. This escalation can quickly expand beyond the original target, engulfing multiple groups or ideas.

In summary, spreading hate against one group not only harms that specific target but also creates a more hostile and intolerant environment where hate can flourish more broadly, affecting many others.

05/26/2023

Our perceptions of the impressions others form of us are heavily influenced by our own self-perception, primarily due to the lack of clear feedback we often receive from others.

05/10/2023

Life can be challenging, but it's not an inherently difficult experience. Money, in itself, is not the root of all evil, and your worth is not defined by your financial status. Love is available to everyone, and it's not a reflection of your personal value. While hard work is certainly important, it's not the only way to achieve your goals. Surviving in this world is not only for the strong, as there are different strengths and qualities that contribute to resilience. Ultimately, we create our own reality, and we have the power to shape it to our liking.

04/07/2023

When it comes to honesty, actions speak louder than words. If someone is willing to deceive you over trivial matters, it's unlikely they will ever be completely truthful with you. It's important to surround yourself with people who value transparency and integrity, and who are willing to be upfront with you, even if it's not always easy to hear. Remember, trust is a foundation of any healthy relationship, and it's essential to protect it by being selective about who you allow into your inner circle.

04/06/2023

Remember that changing someone's beliefs is often a slow process, and it's unlikely that you'll be able to change someone's mind overnight. However, by engaging in respectful and productive conversations, you can help to create a more accepting and inclusive environment.

Here are some tips to help you communicate effectively:

Listen actively: When engaging in a conversation with someone who holds different beliefs, it's important to actively listen to what they have to say. Try to understand their perspective and their reasons for holding those beliefs. Ask questions to clarify their point of view, but do so in a non-judgmental way.

Stay calm and respectful: It can be difficult to remain calm and respectful when discussing sensitive topics, but it's important to avoid getting defensive or aggressive. Stay focused on the conversation and avoid attacking the person or their beliefs. Remember that everyone is entitled to their own opinions and beliefs.

Share your own experiences: One effective way to communicate your own perspective is to share your own experiences. For example, you could talk about your own experiences as a member of the LGBTQ+ community, or share stories of friends or family members who have been positively impacted by drag queens or other LGBTQ+ individuals.

Use inclusive language: Using inclusive language can help to create a more welcoming and accepting environment. For example, instead of saying "gay lifestyle," use "LGBTQ+ identity" or "sexual orientation." Be mindful of the words you use and how they may impact the conversation.

Find common ground: Look for areas where you and the other person can agree. For example, you may both agree that it's important to treat others with respect and kindness. Focus on these areas of agreement to build a foundation for a productive conversation.

04/06/2023

Greatness is not measured in things done, its measured by what you believe is great. Don't ever sell yourself short becuase someone else doesn't see your greatness, all you have to do is be your greatness.

11/12/2021