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06/12/2025

Let’s move away from the “mini me” culture.

Our kids aren’t our carbon copies. They’re their own people, with their own inner world, wiring, and ways of being. When we expect them to reflect us too closely, even subtly, we risk missing the magic of who they actually are.

It’s natural to feel connected through shared traits. But when we project ourselves onto our kids, it can quietly become about us instead of them. This dynamic, though often unconscious, where parents shape their child's identity around our own unfinished story, can cause a child to reject themselves.

There is so much joy in watching our children become exactly who they are.

If you'd like to know how to do this in every day life, check out my course, "Foster Your Child's Identity" or comment Identity for a link.

05/18/2025

Big win!! ⭐️ 🏒 The Stars earned their way to the Western Conference Finals!

04/29/2025

It sounds like your daughter is starting to explore and make sense of her story in the way that young children often do—through imagination and emotional expression. When she said it was a secret or that her dad had died, it likely wasn’t about hiding anything, but more about trying to understand where she fits in the world and what it means to have a “dad.”

You did such a beautiful job by staying curious and open, asking her if she said that because it might feel nice to have a dad. That kind of response, gentle, non-judgmental, and validating, is exactly what helps kids feel safe to keep talking.

If you’re feeling unsure, you could ask her about "a secret dad" to explore her understanding further. If you want some extra support navigating these conversations, talking with a therapist who understands donor conception can be a really helpful next step. Not because anything is wrong, but because these moments matter and it’s okay to want guidance as your child’s understanding deepens.

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04/27/2025

What an incredible day at the Spring Conference!

I can’t believe it’s been seven years since , co-founder of the Donor Conception Network, reached out to me after reading my book. Her email meant so much at the time and gave me the encouragement I needed to keep going.

Today, on International Donor Conception Awareness Day, a day I founded in 2020, I had the honor of speaking at the Donor Conception Network conference in London and I finally got to hug Olivia in person!

And not just Olivia — Nina, Yael, Jo, and so many others who now feel like close friends. Thank you to Nina and Yael for the invitation, for your incredible hard work and professionalism, and for the warmest welcome from you, Kate, Francis, and Jo. You all are truly wonderful. ♥️

04/26/2025

April 27 is the 6th annual International Donor Conception Awareness Day!

I created this day because as a therapist in the field I knew the shame and secrecy surrounding donor conception would ultimately harm the people born through it the most.

They deserve honesty, dignity, and a culture that supports open, ethical conversations from the very beginning.

So today, I invite you to post. Share your story. Use your voice! Whether you’re a parent, donor, person born through donor conception, or a professional in this space. Your truth matters and helps others feel seen.

Thank you for being part of this growing movement for truth, love, and transparency.

03/27/2025

“I’m afraid my family won’t accept our child because they’re not biologically related.”
So many of my clients share this worry with me when choosing a different path to parenthood.

It’s a valid fear, and a painful one, because deep down, we all want our children to be welcomed, celebrated, and fully embraced by our families.

But here’s a gentle reminder you can share with loved ones:
We don’t share DNA with our spouses, and we love them deeply. Love isn’t built on blood. it’s built on connection, commitment, and care.

Families don’t have to match to belong together.

And if your family struggles to understand that, it’s not a reflection of your child’s worth. It’s something in them to unpack…and they can.

03/20/2025

I recently got this question: How do I share my child’s donor conception with friends and acquaintances?

Find natural moments to share, when the topic or something related comes up in conversation.

It might feel uncomfortable or clumsy at first, and that is okay. It gets easier with practice.

Also, be ready for awkward moments after you share. Sometimes people just need a minute to process. If they do not respond or even ignore your statement, just carry on as normal.

When you share with confidence, others will follow your lead.

Have you shared your child’s story? How did it feel? I would love to hear in the comments.

03/13/2025

Willie Nelson has a way of bringing people together. People who might think they’re too different to connect. He breaks down barriers, reminding us that in the end, labels are just illusions. They divide us while lining the pockets of those in power.

I believe all people deserve love and kindness, especially those who don’t fit the mold or fall outside the majority. Our differences should be embraced, not feared. Inclusion makes us stronger, and connection is what truly matters.

Willie’s motto? Don’t be an as***le. Simple, but powerful. More unity, less division. More kindness, more music, and a little more Willie energy in the world.

02/09/2025

Anonymous donation results in fears and unknowns for parents and kids born through donor conception. Opposed any legislation that attempts to codify anonymous donation.

Anonymous donation casts a shadow of uncertainty for families built through donor conception.

❓ What if our donor turns out to be a bad person?
❓ What if they don’t want contact with my child?
❓ What if they reject my child?
❓ What if there are too many half-siblings to navigate?

Parents can prepare for the emotional rollercoaster with Making Contact—a plan to navigate these challenges with confidence. Comment link for more.

Transparency matters.

02/06/2025

About Me
I’m Jana (JAH-nah) rhymes with 🍌) licensed professional counselor, author, and deep thinker on all things identity, family, and belonging. I specialize in fertility-related issues, particularly genetically diverse families, like adoption and donor conception, and guide individuals and families through the complexities of modern family building.

As an adoptee and an adoptive mom through transracial adoption, I know firsthand how layered identity and belonging can be. My personal and professional experiences shape my work, helping parents navigate these complexities with honesty and compassion.

I wrote Three Makes Baby to help parents hold the tension of opposites—because two things can be true at once. Welcome! My goal is to inspire, teach and grow with you in this space.

02/03/2025

I tried something yesterday. The men in my life were deep in sports news while I was taking in heavy updates about reproductive rights that impact women’s health. So, I flipped the script. I threw out a (fake) headline: “Tr$mp just banned all condom sales.” Immediate reactions. What?! He can’t do that! Checking their phones.

But when I’ve shared real news about threats to reproductive rights, it hasn’t landed the same way. Not because they don’t care. They absolutely do, but do they fully understand?

Sometimes, we don’t feel the urgency of an issue unless it touches us personally.

Because empathy is an exercise that takes practice.

I’m not saying we need saving. I’m saying we need you with us. Side by side. Paying attention. Speaking up.

Try this exercise on the men in your life. Tag me and let me know what happens. Make sure they’re ok with being videoed if you decide to do that. This is a gentle exercise, not meant to embarrass or shame them. Don’t attack them because that will bring out their defenses. Just let them process it and sit with it. Saying less may be best.

01/30/2025

Parents share their biggest fears with me about donor conception. And this is a big one —-> So many people have shared their fear about not feeling like the “real” parent.

If you’ve had these thoughts, you’re not alone. But here’s something to consider: What actually makes someone a parent? Parenting isn’t only about genetics. It’s about attachment, the deep bond that forms through love, consistency, and showing up every day.

I dedicate a chapter to help you work through this fear in my book Three Makes Baby and next month, I’ll be presenting on this very topic with the . If this is something you struggle with, I’d love for you to join the conversation.

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