10/17/2024
Narcissists would not be able to abuse victims if they would simply walk up to potential victims and openly said: “I am a terrible person and will do terrible things to you and your kids that will cause you untold suffering. I am going to trap you”. However this NEVER happens. Narcissists are charming, charismatic, persuasive and flattering. They do that until you are well into their trap, and you are "hostage". People do not see that part nor that process.