20/12/2025
I used to believe my healing journey had limits.
Like, “Yes, God… BUT only in THIS body.”
And I think many of you can relate. For example ↓
Have you ever been really proud of the work you’re doing, then you step on the scale and suddenly it changes how you feel about everything? Like now you have to adjust your strategy.
Or you’ve been genuinely enjoying the workouts you’re doing, then your jeans feel weird one morning and all of a sudden you’re like, okay cool, guess we’re doing Pilates now.
You don’t have to answer. I know. 🤣
Fear of weight gain kept me negotiating instead of surrendering. I thought control was safety. I didn’t realize it was limiting the work God wanted to do in me.
→ If this mirrors something you’ve wrestled with, tell me in the comments.
Maybe your limitation isn’t about your body at all.
Maybe it’s financial. Or conditional on keeping certain relationships.
💭 What’s one condition you’ve put on your healing?
And if you’re realizing you need support navigating this in real life, my clarity calls are open. You can DM me or grab a spot through the link on my page.
And if you want reflections like this in real time, I will be sharing more inside my broadcast channel “Messy Middle Diaries”. You can find that tagged on my profile too.🫰🏽