Birth Mom Missions

05/28/2025

From one of my favorite books….

05/27/2025

To adoptees and my daughter.

05/17/2025

I placed my daughter with a family I picked out through an adoption agency. I carefully choose them and met with them several times before her birth, while I was living at the agency. I had one “case worker” to represent me. It was labeled as an “open /semi- open adoption”
The point is she is now 17 and we still have not been allowed to see or talk to each other. I wish she could know me but I have faith that in 9 months when she turns 18 she will search for me. I know her heart because it grew next to mine. I love her more than life.

I just want to make sure all adoptees and she knows they have their rights restored like all of us “nonadoptess” and they can see where they came from when they are 18 at least.

When I am finally reunited with my baby and healed and I know she is healthy and happy, and can see ber in person this mission will truly begin to thrive!

05/15/2025

know her heart because it grew next to mine. I love her more than life.

05/14/2025

This is awesome. Thanks for caring. I’m not being sarcastic either. But I can be for those birth moms that take it that way. lol.

05/09/2025

Mother's Day is emotionally charged.

05/01/2025

Sending love to all the mothers. Especially those who cannot be with their children. Thinking of you. And if you are adopted know that your birth mom loves you!

03/20/2025

Back then, all I wanted was for someone to tell me what that day would feel like… what to expect. But no one could. Now, at least, I have this—something I can share with other birth moms who might be walking a similar path, so they don’t have to feel as alone in it as I did.

I’m in the process of gathering everything—photos, videos, and memories from that time. Once I finish uploading, I’ll open up a deeper conversation about that day—what it meant, how it felt, and how it’s impacted everyone involved.

We need to hear from other birth moms, adoptive parents, and adoptees about their own memories of “adoption day”—the emotions, the challenges, and what you wish could’ve been different.

Together, maybe we can start an honest dialogue about how we can better support everyone touched by adoption on such a life-changing day. 💛

One thing I’m truly grateful for is that my dad managed to capture parts of that day on video. It’s not perfect, but it’s something—and now, all these years later, we can look back and share it.


More to come..... stay tuned

03/20/2025

At the adoption agency waiting to place my daughter for adoption. A full month after she was born we finally had our adoption day. It was the hardest day/month of my life.


More videos from that day on mission. Maybe it will help someone!

03/20/2025

Over the next few weeks, I’ll be uploading a lot of videos and images—some personal, some emotional, all meaningful in their own way. Right now, I may not have the words to explain everything, but I need to get them out there first.

There’s a bigger story unfolding, and in time, the pieces will start to make sense. If you feel drawn to watch or follow along, I welcome you to. For now, I’m simply sharing as part of my process—especially with my daughter’s 17th birthday here.

The meaning will come together as I’m ready to explain. Thanks for understanding.

I suppose I could title the video: ChatGPT provides more post adoption support than a "past adoption support counselor" could 17 years ago. I suppose we have come a long way in SOME ways..

03/09/2025

Step into the shoes of a birth parent for just a moment. Imagine parting with your child. Imagine believing it was your only option. Imagine believing it was the right thing to do. Even then, the pain remains, doesn’t it?
Now, picture someone telling you that you don’t have the right to grieve. That you shouldn’t shed tears. That you shouldn’t miss your child. Imagine feeling like there’s no place where you truly belong anymore. Too often, birth parents are dismissed or even labeled as "crazy" for wanting to remember and speak about their child.
Enough is enough.

What can you do to help? Please join our mission by following the Birth Mom Missions page. This alone would be a huge help! Share with others, especially those involved in or considering adoption.

We WILL change the face of adoption.
We WILL support life, uplift women, and promote strong families.
We WILL let adopted children know just how much they are loved.
YOU were ALWAYS wanted. ❤️

For just a second, put on the shoes of a birth parent. Imagine parting with your child. Imagine believing that it is your only option. Imagine believing that...

01/13/2024

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