09/23/2025
Never say never. 😉💕
Or at least, never say never until you have done the work to make a fully informed decision.
John and I both never thought we would remarry after we got divorced. Each of us for different reasons, but once you get divorced the idea of marriage can lose its appeal.
And yet, even though we got engaged almost 6 years ago, while we weren’t afraid of commitment, marriage was still scary to us.
And that’s because we hadn’t fully done our work, and were still getting stuck in patterns based on attachment wounds from our past that prevented us from fully leaning in to safety, trust and vulnerability.
But once we did do the work, healed all the things, the idea of marriage was no longer scary, it was exciting.
The idea of that level of commitment felt safe, comforting and the very clear next step.
It also felt right to bring our girls together into a family unit they can rely on and lean into, because this relationship isn’t just about us, but also our 3 girls.
So we are thrilled to share that we are getting married in a few months! ❤️🥂
This marriage is reflection of an almost 10-year relationship journey, as well as a lifetime of learning, growing, and healing.
We are ready for this to be the foundation of our next chapter, and can’t wait to do it together.
👰🏻♀️✨🤵🏼♂️
