02/19/2026
Do you remember the books, "Chicken Soup for the Soul"?
I enjoyed writing ever since I was a kid. The proof stands in my writings from age 8 forward that my parents preserved for all these years kept safely in totes and boxes. Exhaustion has definitely pulled me away from the level of mental clarity that is needed to write, but it will always be something I enjoy.
When I was a pr***en, Chicken Soup's first edition was released. Those tales inspired me to be better. Not only as a writer, but as a person. How I loved reading those books. I submitted my own personal stories several times and I have no idea if those stories were ever read by anyone else, but knowing my stories could have made a difference for someone else was all I needed to be motivated to keep writing.
One tale gathered by Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen in that very first edition, teaches the value of taking simple actions in situations that seem insurmountable. It left a mark for me.
Here is the story:
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A man was walking along a deserted Mexican beach at sunset. He sees another man in the distance, who is picking things up and throwing them into the ocean. Once close enough, he asked what he's doing, to which the man responds that he's throwing stranded starfish back into the sea. The walker is astonished and incredulously points out that not only are there thousands of starfish on the beach, but that a similar thing would be happening up and down the coast.
"Can't you see that you can't possibly make a difference?" the man exclaims.
Smiling, the man bends to pick up another starfish and, as he throws it back, says, "Made a difference to that one."
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For my little Branch family, life has thrown us a hefty curveball with navigating a rare disease. It is often overwhelming and at times I wonder, how can I possibly make a difference when there is so much to consider? I recall that story.
Our power resides in our response. To smiling at a stranger, to giving a few dollars to charity, to being the trustworthy confidant to a friend during their times of difficulty, that hug that student needs to get through the day, to letting go of perfection and realizing that life's beauty is a compilation of messy, sometimes chaotic, events.
I leave you today with The Serenity Prayer that I urge you to repeat to yourself any time life feels out of your control:
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
Amen.
Robert recites this prayer to William every night before we put him to bed. I am so incredibly thankful for my Branch boys.
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