01/30/2026
Are you spinning in unhappiness? Are you stuck in the story of the thing/moment/event etc. that caused you pain?
If you find yourself talking about how unhappy you are over and over again, it can serve two different purposes.
Firstly, it garners attention. People listen and they care for you and you feel supported by your loved ones. This is wonderful and necessary at the beginning of a healing process. But after a while, people are tired. They won’t tell you to your face but they are definitely thinking “enough already, get over it”.
While no one should rush your healing process and you’re allowed to take as much time as you need, there does come a point where the unhappiness is no longer serving you. You’re not even getting positive attention anymore. You’re just stuck.
Today’s encouraged you to let that unhappiness serve your EVOLUTION instead. How do you do that? You must move from ruminating to analyzing with curiosity. Ask yourself from a place of conscious awareness, “What is here for me? How can I grow from this experience?”
First SEE that you’re stuck. Then CHANGE from ruminating to asking yourself those important questions and lastly DO something different by approaching your unhappiness as something to learn from not something to suffer in.
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‼️Remember, is only for entertainment and does not provide medical advice. Always consult your physician or mental health professional for guidance.