Dr Alduan Tartt

Dr Alduan Tartt Dr. Tartt has a private practice and also speaks frequently at conferences, churches, organizations on improving relationships, families and mental health.
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Dr. Alduan Tartt is the go to psychology expert and media expert on dating, relationships, marriage & family, sports, and overall mental health for the faith-based community. Christian Psychologist helping you create thriving relationships. |

Dr. Tartt is a clinical psychologist with a focus on faith, mental health and relationships of all sorts (single, dating, marriage, family, sports, etc.). Dr. Tartt also host radio and television shows and is a frequent guest on major media outlets. Dr. Tartt also counsels other healers and helpers (pastors, ministers, doctors, entertainers) who need to be encouraged, supported and filled up too.

03/11/2026

Why Men Still Choose Marriage…

1) Better long-term happiness over a lifetime of broken relationships and situationships

2) Better performance at work (when you have peace at home lol) because you have stability vs random women in and out with no structure AND a whole Black wife to advise you on your plans and goals.

3) Desire to unify your family versus children in six different households. Your brand matters as a family man and you want legacy.

4) You want to build wealth consecutively each year vs child support, working alone, and no steady growth with the same reliable person

5) You saw healthy or wanted healthy relationships growing up so this is your norm and how your neighborhood looks or want it to look.

6) You want to model a healthy life for your children versus something dysfunctional

7) You don’t want HIV/STD and the more 🍑 have, the higher your chance for that to happen over time. I live in Atlanta so this is very real with the same 12 men sleeping with 112 women. That hookup culture has consequences.

He who finds a wife, finds a good thing. I’m just laying out another option brothers. Want to avoid divorce, be good and pick good. Also, remarry once you find a better situation.

Did I leave anything out? I just believe we have to show the other side of marriage vs only seeing men say marriage is risky, bad or simpish. This is the reality for most men despite what social media may say.

Thoughts…respectful ones I mean 😂

03/06/2026

Quick quiz: Are you really a “good catch” to be in relationship or even marriage with or think you are?

I get it…who really knows a what it takes to be “Good” in relationships outside of being a good person and love?

However, love is not enough when you lack relational (High EQ skills). Here are four skills we all need to practice and improve on and require anyone to date or marry to do the same.

1) Ability to accommodate evenly (work with your partner to both be happy evenly)

2) Ability to self-sacrifice (take one for the team with a good attitude evenly)

3) Forgive quickly in relation to the offense (let little things go but not enable someone who is just a bad person to be in relationship with)

4) Be an optimist (are you able to have a positive illusion or faith when things get tough by resiliency and grit vs quitting, being negative and leaving all of the time)

Whew…how did you measure up? Be honest lol.

03/05/2026

Couples who pray together and/or do religious activities together decrease divorce rates by 50% according to The Harvard Flourishing Study.

Do you…

1) Pray together regularly…either with and/or for one another?

2) Study the scripture and help apply to your personal lives and relationships?

3) Serve together making the community, church, world a better place as a couple in any way?

Honestly, we could be more consistent in all three of these areas. Which ones do you feel compelled to continue or start?

02/22/2026

One key to a happy marriage is choosing a mutual satisfaction over obligation mindset when it comes to marriage.

Happily married couples consistently focus on how to make their spouse happy/satisfied with being in a relationship with them and make rapid adjustments to ensure that vs requiring an unhappy partner to endure circumstances that are dissatisfying and harm their sense of happiness.

Do you agree and how do you check in with your partner to make sure both of you are happy?

“I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.” — Philippians 4:11

02/17/2026

Valentine’s Day can play tricks on you in three ways (full video is 1st link in bio):

1) Miswanting- this is a psychological term where the mind is trick into thinking it wants a relationship only because everyone else seems to be in one but you were happy before Feb 14th already

2) Emotional Hunger Pains- this is where the holiday did ignite a deep desire to be in a relationship and you need to be more intentional about it.

3) Patience- this is simply the story of Hannah from the Bible where your relationship/dream is coming but you must be patient versus getting discouraged.

Which ones can you identify with?

02/13/2026

Successful women really struggle in dating when they 1) Lead with their resume vs. character 2) Compare resumes vs. getting to know the man and 3) Not screening to make sure men are secure or insecure before agreeing to date. I'll explain exactly what successful women should do to have great dates without dumbing down or turning off marriage minded men who do NOT desire to talk about titles, work or money on dates. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcT7epl0rmk

If men have to adapt to impress successful women, shouldn't women adapt to date men who don't care more about your chara...
02/13/2026

If men have to adapt to impress successful women, shouldn't women adapt to date men who don't care more about your character, friendliness and desire to get to him too? Let me explain for every man who feels this way too https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcT7epl0rmk

02/06/2026

Comment “connect” and I’ll send you a first date blueprint to avoid being ghosted and be magnetic instead!

Never ask, “So what do you do for a living,” on a first date. Also, never ask for a credit score, where they live (assessing for zip code wealth), how much they make, what they drive, etc. 😡.

Men do not like feeling “interviewed” before he know if you even like him. Men don’t want to have to “perform” for a girlfriend or wife. We wish to just be liked genuinely.

I give you waaaay better questions to ask if you want men to plan a second date with you while still on the first one because you are so amazing.

1) Lead with warmth, not work. Start human before you start assessing. (“I’m glad we did this—how’s your day really been?” “What’s been the best part of your week?”)

2) Ask identity-first questions. Learn who he is before you focus on what he produces. (“What do you enjoy about your work?” “What made you choose that path?”)

3) Use the Curiosity Ladder (flow, not rapid-fire). Ask → follow up → reflect → share a little → invite him back. (“What made that meaningful?” “I can tell you value ___.” “I’m similar because…”)

4) Catch bids for connection. If he jokes, tells a story, or shares a detail—receive it. (“Wait—tell me more.” “That’s funny—what happened next?” “I like your sense of humor.”)

5) Share micro-disclosure (no trauma dumping). Give small, warm glimpses of you so you’re memorable. (“I’m lowkey nerdy about ___.” “A perfect Saturday for me looks like…”)

6) Bring spark + standards. Stay warm and clear about intentional dating. (“I date intentionally—what does that mean to you?” “How do you handle conflict when you care?”)

7) Offer a future glimpse (without pressure). Light vision questions signal purpose, not desperation. (“What are you building in your life right now?” “What does a healthy relationship look like day-to-day?”)

8) Keep romantic energy (chemistry without chasing). Be present, playful, and feminine—don’t make it feel like HR. (“Quick question—what’s your most controversial food opinion?” “I can tell you’re competitive… am I right?”)

I break this down in even more detail (see link in bio).

God. Wife. Family. Legacy. “Well Done My Good & Faithful Servant.”This is the goal (and saving the world lol).
02/03/2026

God. Wife. Family. Legacy. “Well Done My Good & Faithful Servant.”

This is the goal (and saving the world lol).

01/23/2026

Comment “favor” so I can send the strategy for how to be findable to attract good men to you.

Why would you allow good men to come off the market because you are waiting for a husband to find you when you could be more findable so her can marry you?

How can he ask you out on a date if he never is in the same room as you? Ijs

Let me@know your thoughts!

01/16/2026

Comment FIND and I’ll send you a complete plan for where to find good men and it’s not the normal places.

However, I need you to do three things:

1) I need you to know the exact qualities you desire in a boyfriend/husband (I need substance beyond how he looks, how tall he is or his money…character traits are what I need.

2) I need you to use your network (connections) to send you a hookup. Why? Good people know good people and super social people know a lot of people. We use connections for everything else….use them for finding your spouse too!

3) Position yourself in places your future husband is likely to be (high character people do high character things- coach, church, business conferences, volunteer, work out, volunteer, etc.)

Also, I am not judging clubs or bars. You can meet a good man anywhere! I am just giving you a different perspective.

01/13/2026

How I Would Find In Wife In Modern Times:

Why am I doing this post? Honestly, because every man I know talks about how hard it is to find a wife and I agree. Here’s my five but I’ll do another video with my honest top strategy later.

1) Go to places where highly quality, high character women are, where I am the minority (very few men).

2) Approach immediately versus wait for another man to steal her attention.

3) Approach with high energy and immediately give compliments with intensity. My wife knows I’m always extra lol.

4) Ask deep questions to see if we vibe and ask follow up questions to show that I know how to be listen and intensify my interest in her. I am also screening for vibe and character too.

5) Ask about my most immediate deal breakers because why waste time if we are not a match (do you go to church, do you read/smart/have a talent, do you smoke - we had too many people pass due to Cancer in my family so this one is more personal than judgmental).

Notice that I did not screen for kids, money or weave. I can work with all of those things. I just want the best woman.

Also, this is not unique to me. Every married or intentional single man in my feed would have a similar energy but with a different style.

Thoughts?

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